I remember having a conversation with
https://x.com/GabrielKurman at nostr:npub1watch0u2mlgt2p9g73sltzvkntuyeln86fpkyxzugfamn5nvc6zsmcfpwx
that opened my eyes.
"The best thing that happened to Bitcoin during the blocksize war was the creation of BCash. There’s no need to bring up that topic anymore. If you want larger blocks, just move to BCash"