strongly agree, but the important thing is know yourself and your values, and understand if your partner is aligned with you on these deep and important stuffs.
The things you should accept from your partner are the same you should accept from yourself: literally EVERYTHING except things that are non-compatible with your deep values and your life-pourpose.
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