the culture has to change across the board first it is submitting leave requests then people wonder what ~you~ did wrong as an employee that your manager is sending you dick picks while drunk like.. the line was already crossed agreeing to the power dynamic of requesting permission to leave. after i submit the request does my manager say: only if i really really need to do i have to shake my ass like i have an invisible tail to prove i do, in fact, need to leave and that is why i submitted a request like when does it stop