The strfry router command does exactly what you’re asking for, if I understand you correctly. Just use your WoT to decide which friendly and trustworthy relays you want to open streams with. Use a different filter with each relay if you wish, like if you trust relay1 for wikis, relay2 for zaps, relay3 for kind1, relay4 for profile data, etc. One of many reasons I’m happy with using strfry for Brainstorm.

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strfry/docs/router.md at master · hoytech/strfry

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