Telling someone your secret can feel like relief, but psychology teaches us it’s also the moment you lose control over it. A secret once spoken is no longer only yours - it lives in the mind of another with all their impulses, loyalties and weaknesses.
Not everyone can carry silence with dignity. The real wisdom is not in how much you share, but in knowing who is truly capable of holding your truth without turning it into a weapon, a story or a burden. Protecting your inner world is not secrecy, it is self-respect. #nostr #psychology