I am definitely not sorry. i will happily doxx anyone trying to compromise nostr censorship resistance via legal attack. if they don’t like that they shouldn’t email me with legal threats with their real name

Well, it might not be worth it. Better look into relays on tor and clients talking to those. Maybe meta relays that forward requests to tor but don't store stuff ...

you're a petulant, arrogant, egotistical immature kid. grow up.

Naw. He's completely unrepentant. No care. Aloof to the harm he's caused (to himself, grinder, and the wider trust he's enjoyed as a dev).