i'm an Idiot , ofc i had to install go doh
but i published my npub nostr:npub1ykal2phgzf6ljmql6l8khmf0ekf6ny0582r89m00j9vjt8qezhjqqpa3dl
with ip 192.168.201.174
dig {@localhost:5354}nostr:npub1ykal2phgzf6ljmql6l8khmf0ekf6ny0582r89m00j9vjt8qezhjqqpa3dl.nostr
no-dns server runs on port 5354
all well but the answer that came back
;; QUESTION SECTION:
;npub1ykal2phgzf6ljmql6l8khmf0ekf6ny0582r89m00j9vjt8qezhjqqpa3dl.nostr. IN A
;; Query time: 7 msec
;; SERVER: 192.168.201.70#53(192.168.201.70) (UDP)
;; WHEN: Fri Sep 26 14:32:33 CEST 2025
;; MSG SIZE rcvd: 87
came back with diff ip huh ?