Tbh I'm having fun trying to figure out how to solve the issues.

I half disagree. People manage 'locations' in tonns of contexts for a variety of purposes. Their email is on one site (and they organize folders there), their chats are on this other app (and they organize things over there), etc. etc. etc. Is the problem that users need to organize things? Or is the problem a lack of intuition/understanding and interfaces (a lack of understanding that exists among a lot of Nostr developers as well, seeing how some go about relays)?