Nostr zaps are a example of that. Totally unregulated not declared transactions.

It actually damages your argument to lie, it doesn't improve it. 3 of the top 4 DNMs are Monero only, the other is Monero Bitcoin hybrid.

They do on the nosmero and monstr clients. Most Nostr clients don't have Monero support so people don't use it on them.

Nobody with the need for strong privacy guarantees uses LN and not because of "infrastructure issues" but because *the end user cant personally verify the privacy* ie, if it was compromised, you'd never know.

Run your own LN over tor with private channels if you need a lot of privacy.