ok, let's be serious a minute, obviously relationships of all kinds, past and present are very unserious on this planet,
so let's pivot
room refresh:
besides patiently waiting it all out
cos got time
what else matters so very much?
what you do not do
again: what you do not do
thrice: what you do not do
ok. so is what you do, does that matter? yes. equal to what you do, equal in mattering: what you dont do