Oh I get them on instagram and tiktok and got them on twitter before I left there to the tune of about a dozen a month. Not so much here. It used to make me feel weird like I was somehow attracting that kind of attention purposefully, but then I read Joe Dispenza’s work on how women who spend significant time alone learn to meet their own emotional needs and become strangely magnetic and I was like: oooooh ok 😬

not needing someone seems to be a big attractor in cases. I'm frustrated at the moment with guy friends trying to find dates on Tinder. I'm pretty sure the only women on there are scared away in short order, and the ones who star are there for business. And the algo isn't there to get people off of the platform either.