„Nothing more attractive than a beautiful mind“
What is attractive #nostr?
The look? Mindset? Intelligence? 
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A combination of physical appearance, mindset, intelligence, funny ...and some penis butter 🐶
That sounds great, what can I imagine? With weirdness I have some experience 😂.
I see Shawn’s list and raise a sense of daring adventure, a calming comforting presence also draws me in. Probably why I’m single. I want someone who has a calming, comforting presence but a daring sense of adventure. Hmmm 🤔
That sounds nice 🥰 have you met this person yet? Penis butter should never be missing 😂
Not yet , still looking 👀 
Do you think that this is not possible ?
I think it’s rare
I cross my fingers for you 🫂
You just need one 🫂
Somehow that’s still the hard part.
My parents made it look so easy. They met in their early twenties.
Yes, the problem is that you know exactly that everything else makes no sense.
Take up mountain biking. They exist.
It was the same with my mother and stepfather. When you had such a beautiful relationship in front of you, you hardly want less
I dated a guy into mountain biking. We met at the dog park. Absolutely the only thing we had in common.
And the dogs?
Exactly!
He didn’t really like my dog and my dog wasn’t too wild about him either. He had a really cute puppy. I think I liked his puppy more than him. We didn’t date long.
Mmmh, until now I have never dated a man who has a dog
Trust your dog , always 🐶
patience, empathy, aspiration for balance, consistent with mental & physical healthcare, pushes me out of my comfort zone
I think my dog would prefer I dated someone without a dog. She’ll play wingwoman and she goes for a very specific type of guy. She did get jealous that this guy at the vet’s office had a dog. She was ready to adopt him.
Wow, an interesting list as well. What would be an example of pushing out of the comfort zone?
I think Navi would love to decide who we adopted. 😂 I haven’t had a serious relationship since I’ve had her. I don’t think she would take a breakup well.
I like the idea that you are discussing this with her 😂 and also that you are talking about adopting
🤣 I don’t want to say I’m discussing it with her. Then I remembered I was talking to a guy. Sent him a picture of me and my pup cuddled up. His response to the photo was to tell me once he was there my dog was never going to be allowed in bed again. I was like Bye Felicia! Told her he just wasn’t the guy for us. 😂
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Lol, dogs are a good judge of character
She adopted me so 💯
Mallory, the quality of your character is beyond question
Thank you.
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Intelligence, open mindedness, kindness, and a sense of humor is what is most attractive to me.
Does the order matter?
If I had to choose, then I would say kindness.
Attraction for me is mostly based on how people handle annoyances 😂
May sound odd but someone not bothered by something small is instantly attractive to me
What I also find important is how men (so in my case) treat service staff. Anyone who is not respectful and friendly here is also not interesting for me
Intelligence + beauty (physically attractive) + kind/nice + interesting + creative + original + thoughtful/considerate of other people + humble/modest = IDEAL but rare!
Hmm maybe be more assertive at work, overcome social anxieties, take life less seriously
I hope you meet the woman with whom you can achieve all this together 🫂