Unrelated to bostr here are some other relays or nostr based content tools that I'm using in my self hosted stack or plan to run soon that you might find useful for RB.
nostr:npub1utx00neqgqln72j22kej3ux7803c2k986henvvha4thuwfkper4s7r50e8 fren-relay - https://github.com/bitvora/fren-relay
Very simple config setup and then automatically whitelists any of your follower's for usage as a good home relay. I've only been running it for a few days and its ran well.
nostr:npub1zmc6qyqdfnllhnzzxr5wpepfpnzcf8q6m3jdveflmgruqvd3qa9sjv7f60's GRAIN 🌾 - https://github.com/0ceanSlim/grain
I'm excited to see this project develop more. Based on the current to-do list this could offer everything I currently need in a relay.
nostr:npub138s5hey76qrnm2pmv7p8nnffhfddsm8sqzm285dyc0wy4f8a6qkqtzx624's Nostrcheck server - https://github.com/quentintaranpino/nostrcheck-server
I currently use this to self host my own pictures and videos for my posts via NIP-96 or can also do Blossum. The project also supports tools for NIP-05 and Lightning redirects though that's a little redundant with LNBits.
nostr:npub10td4yrp6cl9kmjp9x5yd7r8pm96a5j07lk5mtj2kw39qf8frpt8qm9x2wl's relay29 - https://github.com/0xchat-app/relay29
This will be a little niche but if you want to run your own NIP-29 Group relay to make sure all of your group information is self hosted this is what I use for nostr:npub1gvmc3nvmjekx7e0qlkeaqw2cqypvtqdcg4ljuz0wfj3zxjnnauys3ngk9f.
H.O.R.N.E.T Storage Nostr Relay - https://github.com/HORNET-Storage/hornet-storage
I've watched nostr:npub1t89vhkp66hz54kga4n635jwqdc977uc2crnuyddx7maznwfrpupqwra5h9's presentation multiple times now and its on my watch list for having everything I need and more in a relay. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QAf0s-d9W0g
