Turns out the Nostr Army Knife does what I need with just running one command in tmux, for example:
nak bunker --sec ncryptsec1.. relay.nsecbunker.com
https://github.com/fiatjaf/nak?tab=readme-ov-file#start-a-bunker-locally
Thank you @fiatjaf !
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