Hey you can do such a setup and after you have BTCPay running, preferably via our docker setup you can use this guide 1:1

Reverse proxy to Tor | BTCPay Server

BTCPay Server Official Documentation

If you run it on Umbrel, Raspiblitz, or other it is more complicated.

Thanks, that's a great guide. I think I can follow along. I'm still concerned that I'm a monkey pushing buttons in the right order with no idea about what they actually do. I need someone to hold my hand and maybe hug me a little while I SSH into the VPS. How many sats for that? Somebody send me a quote! 😂

See, I just zapped my own dumb ass 210 sats. This is why I can't be trusted to do things alone.