I totally understand where you come from. I used to be very active on Nostr (with my older identity), even attempting some community building with weekly activities. I did not feel welcomed that often… then I dared to criticize a couple of projects and that was it. I’m always concerned when group think becomes stronger than logic. All the symptoms of a cult were present. I still pop in with this account every now and then because I am curious about the development of the technology, rather than for keeping in touch with the community.