If you're so sure of what you're doing, what I think should not be of any concern to you whatsoever. You should not be seeking validation from strangers, or asking them their opinions; if you know what you're doing is right, then persue it relentlessly. I suggest however that you try to think for yourself, and not be a follower. Don't use the language of other people, don't be like other people, talk like them, dress like them or do anything like them. Remove yoursellf from the Cult. Most of the Cult members are total idiots who are copying someone else. If you get all your thinking from copying others, you are likely to end up in the ditch. And collectivism is POISON. Stop pandering, trying to curry favour, looking for validation and being weak. Take some lessons from HRH YOU NEED IT.