You bring up some good points and I agree with people quite possibly are lazy too. but I guess what i'm thinking is this is more of a societal problem - where people don't value friendships like they use too probably due to many reasons like - the system we live in is high time preference - people work too much - social media and netflix while curating friends can help fix this to a degree maybe...... in my experience it seems rather hopeless as people rather relationships that are via text and superficial. maybe because people are mentally drained from their stressful lives? anyhow, i guess maybe what im wondering is - is this common where your at? #asknostr