That's also the result of funneling all events through one server. If the server gets overloaded or goes down, the events get stuck waiting to get through that funnel or might even get accidentally dropped en route. Need at least 2 default inbound channels, in my opinion, and they need to be from completely different machines. That's why I add wss://nostr.land as a default, everywhere, even though it's not my own relay. If wss://theforest.nostr1.com goes down, I don't want people's feeds to die 🪦 .