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Being single looks really fun, to be honest. No hard work, no responsibilities, no rules, just have fun and party and travel all the time. I married so young that I don't really remember what it was like to be single, and that was a quarter century ago, so YMMV, but all I recall is lots of free time and relaxation and exercise.

at 49 i could do with not having any more lol. tbh i wanted to marry at 21 but the girl had this junky wench chattering in her ear and kicked me to the curb. said wench wound up dead in her boyfriend's car of CO poisoning a month or two later. but it was like. uh. well, idk. truth be told i had zero prospects of getting a decent job at that time. so here i sit, after way too much of this "good stuff" i'm tired of it. want the farmers wife and the swarming littlies causing chaos to put them to their best uses on the homestead. modern fiat culture has ruined society. people used to actually have lives and futures and legacies and hope. nowadays it's hopping from one dopamine hit to the next.

I do have to say that the thought of not having my family around me is just straight-up bizarre. I'm always surrounded by people and kids are always running around and picking berries in the backyard, or playing soccer. It's all very alive. If you want to have family, you have to make it or adopt it, I guess. My life is like in some Bitcoin Bro Homesteading commercial, but the wife is a snarky, plump, brown programmer. So, not at all like in a Bitcoin Bro Homesteading commercial. 😂

yeah, they only like supermodels apparently.

Between no-fault divorce, a justice system that is very generous to women, and the sexual revolution, of course being single looks attractive. It's all lies, though. I'm sure I'm preaching to the choir here. Getting married young is a gift. Getting to know oneself first is overrated. A good life consists of community built on marriage, family, and friendships. Men and women find themselves when in service of and friendship with others.

bros of all types are just pathetic tho. like a bunch of social climber women competing and gossiping with each other, all agreeing with each other while planning to stab their competitors in the back. it's totally not manly. men who want a wife for photo ops are also shallow bitches.

Well, it's all very hypothetical. I'd probably have ended up a completely different person, if I had stayed single. Not necessarily a better or worse person, but definitely a different one. Or I might have become a nun. At any rate, I probably wouldn't have been able to stay single, for long, as men were always trying to marry me, and they can be incredibly persistent. Sounds weird; had to be there. There's a real bifurcation in the female population; you can see it, in the middle-aged women who come back on the market after being divorced or widowed. Some women are born to be pumped-and-dumped, and others are born to be hog-tied and dragged to a cabin in the hills and chained to the stove.

They're also illogical. Supermodels don't want to herd goats in the mountains and be constantly pregnant. They're thirsting after the women they see in urban areas and are mentally transplanting her.

nostr:npub1x458tl7h9xcxa66vr4a8pg0h2qz96pnhwnfpcra0le9090uk5t5qw7armt is apparently on the same trip you are on, nostr:npub1nf9vm6uhs4j7yaysmjn9eqlf7et5t6hvrkdqgpd995vcc9yfjyas0pxa3x . 😂 The person he's replying to is interesting, as they apparently view remaining "independent" as some sort of strength, whereas I associate it with choosing the easy life. nostr:nevent1qqs26h0tpxmakg0xtscs0w85ymevwa7d3hqau7csfz6tgd4g7meccyszyq6ksa0l6u5mqmhtfswh5u9p7agqghgxwa6dy8q04lly4u4lj63wsqcyqqqqqqg0ms0t7

Not that Laser doesn't have me muted because he thinks I'm a prime example Who Not To Marry 😂.

I’m pretty sure he wants to marry me, dude be making a lot of noise about just how normal and straight he is… something’s going on there.

Stella is quality

well, the option isn't available anyway

yeah the point about how the pill screws up a woman's desire in type of man is one of the worst things about it. i watched this happen over and over again in my teens and 20s. it's disgusting that doctors give this stuff out like lollies. one of the bazillion things that is disgusting about modern drug-oriented surgery-oriented medicine.

Well, I think he already is married.

Good for them… I hope they’re happy.

He gives a lot of marriage advice, but he hasn't been married very long. I've been married so long that my marriage advice is like: Just don't get divorced. Which is actually really effective. 🤷🏻‍♀️

people these days are encouraged to not be honorable with their contracts. marriage is painted as some kind of non-serious thing. actually, it's a fiat mindset, because the same thing applies to fiat loans, although they do screw up your credit rating and often will garnish your wages, it doesn't have the stigma of a proper contract, i've heard it from so many people talking about how "oh, they just claim it on insurance anyway", so a lot of people just brush it off, lose a bunch of stuff, or the car gets repoed and a lot of the time that's not an impediment to other, more loose lending companies. because the money isn't actually a real cost to a bank. when people talk about money printing, that's banks issuing loans. the ongoing payment of interest is what they make money on. and similarly, in relationships, everything has more and more gone towards a casual, non-serious attitude about everything, including marriage. like, even this trans stuff. people are afraid of being committed to something that they already accepted. they are dishonoring their contract with God, in the sense that this was what they were given, and they want to mutilate it because of ridiculous attribution of anxiety and depression to sexuality. when in reality, the mental health problem is caused by diet and drugs. dishonoring contracts is a sport in fiat culture. the things that apply to money have a way of impacting all kinds of contracts that people sign up for.

Been married just over a year... My advice would be don't jump into an Illuminati spaceship piloted by lizards but I'm aware opinions may vary on this subject. I suspicious of anyone who claims they know the answers to everything. Especially folks who only broadcast and never interact.

yeah, demagogues are always hypocrites, pretty much.

I’m lucky in that I know very little, and even luckier to have a wife to remind me of that. Not a “my wife joke”, I’m genuinely grateful she helps me not be like that.

idk it seems to me that a lot of these guys want to believe that feminism or some other ideological demon is the largest threat to their relationship and family. but really, the biggest threat is themselves and their ego. they feel entitled to "leadership" without taking responsibility for the failures. behind all the glamorous words of obligation and values rests the deep truth that they really don't know how to love a woman—and may not even like women in general.

Yeah, they don't like women very much. Everyone thinks this is ideological, but some guys just don't like girls, and vice-versa, and they come up with ideologies to match that, but it's really just some weird, angry offshoot of sexual confusion, where they worship their own biological sex. Bros before hos and women making vagina-shaped ceramic ashtrays, and stuff. And the rest of us are just in the middle, watching this ping-pong. Will the No Boys Allowed Club or the No Girls Allowed Club win this round?

literally children lol. arrested development.

Its because the marriage contract has been weakened. Most are too thoughtless to get a prenup.

the ego is not a toxic thing implicitly. it is simply the limited view and models a single person has. it is an anti-individualist perspective that is based on a mindset common among the ruling class that most people are just dirty animals to be herded and population controlled. feminism is not by itself the threat. it's that, combined with hormone pills, eugenics propaganda against families, and the psychologically damaged people who have these things imposed on them and normalized. feminism is bullshit though, it's not even an accurate label, because what it really means is "women and men are interchangeable" - which is ridiculous. treating people as symbols is dehumanizing. thinking in cliches and stereotypes leaves out all the individual differences. some women are more manly, some men are more womanly. what fits the physical individual is not a simple binary equation. but having said that, women's brains have different capacities to men, caused by hormones and the differences of the extra genes in the female chromasomes. so, a) they are different, b) they can be somewhat similar along various lines, and c) honor the gift of life by affirming the particular thing you are instead of your mind being locked into simplified caracatures of reality.

lol i ship it :3

awww does this mean we're frens again? ^___^

"Just don't get divorced" ... or "do the sorts of things that make them *want* to stay with you"? 😂 I recently celebrated 10 years with my wife. It simultaneously seems weird to me that we've been mapped that long, yet also it would be more weird otherwise.

My husband's prenup is marrying a religious fanatic. 😂

It ends up being the same thing. That's why it's like a magic trick. If you know that there's no eject button, you automatically fly more carefully.

This woman is spiritually dead and her husband most likely as well, speaking from experience.