You see a lot of rich people who struggle with their marriage, their family, their relationships, because accumulating money is much easier than accumulating wealth.
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Envy is life telling you that you should stop getting distracted by other people’s lives and start working on your own.
#orangebook #Envy #Self-improvement #Comparison
A sign of success and internal fulfillment is when you are no longer obsessed with “changing your life” anymore.
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A lot of “luck” boils down to maintaining the environment and routine that nurture the most high-energy version of yourself, whilst simultaneously hanging out with other high-energy people who also have a clear idea of what they want from life.
#orangebook #SelfImprovement #Mindset #Networking
Intellectual curiosity doesn’t guarantee wealth, but lack of intellectual curiosity guarantees poverty.
#orangebook #Curiosity #Wealth #Poverty
The biggest opportunities you miss throughout your life aren’t measured financially, they are the experiences you never knew you could have had, that would have transformed you into the healthiest, calmest, happiest, most confident version of yourself.
#orangebook #LifeOpportunities #PersonalGrowth #SelfImprovement
Lack of success when it comes to building the life you want basically boils down to three points:
1) lack of honesty with yourself to face who you are and how much effort in the right direction you’ve made or (or haven’t made, yet)
2) lack of self-discipline and emotional control to stay the course and stick to the plan when life is testing your convictions, and it will
3) lack of courage to make the tough decisions:
leaving some old baggage behind and moving on to where you actually belong;
making more time to build relationships with people with whom conversations are both effortless, stimulating, reinvigorating;
unlearning all the parts of yourself that you never liked but got comfortable living with, in order to rebuild yourself “cleanly” into someone you actually respect.
#orangebook #SelfImprovement #PersonalGrowth #LifeDecisions
Anxiety happens when you know deep down that you should be doing better. It's the voice that screams when you've betrayed yourself and lowered your standards.
#orangebook #Anxiety #Self-betrayal #Standards
The only test of intelligence that matters is whether you navigate your own life on your own terms.
#orangebook #Intelligence #Life #Autonomy
The less you take yourself seriously, the faster you grow as a person.
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Every new year is the opportunity to trim down what has been a mental burden on you for too long already: underwater investments that you kept out of wishful thinking, side projects that distracted you from what you do best, relationships with people who never cared like you did.
#orangebook #NewYear #Declutter #Priorities
Anxiety is when you are smart enough to know the life you need, but not brave enough to build it: your lack of courage makes you overthink every step along the way, you make no progress, you resent your own inaction, and mental peace never comes to you.
#orangebook #Anxiety #Courage #MentalPeace
Most people who think that relationships are complicated are actually struggling to fix their own insecurities first.
#orangebook #Relationships #Insecurities #Self-improvement
Growth begins once you have the honesty to admit that you are not satisfied with the current version of yourself.
#orangebook #Growth #Honesty #Self-improvement
A lot of "talent" boils down to assuming that you have no talent, no particular good luck, that no one will help you for no reason, and that miracles don't happen.
That's when you will shift to the right mindset of taking responsibility for who you are and where you are in life.
That's when you will start clarifying and cultivating the right long-term habits and efforts.
That's also when "good luck" and miracles may start happening.
#orangebook #Mindset #Responsibility #Habits
Reality doesn’t care that you don’t have time to catch up with the knowledge that you should be up-to-date with if you want to intelligently navigate a fast-changing society. Ironically, the busier you are, the busier you will get. Make time to regularly relearn your assumptions.
#orangebook #LifelongLearning #Adaptability #TimeManagement
Good parents are rare because so many adults are still children who still refuse to take responsibility for where they are in life, let alone another living being.
#orangebook #Parenting #Responsibility #Maturity
The first step to raise mentally healthy children is to be a mentally healthy parent.
#orangebook #MentalHealth #Parenting #Children
Acting like a victim is a mental disease.
#orangebook #VictimMentality #MentalHealth #SelfAwareness
You somehow make a lot of people feel “uncomfortable” when you just mind your own business and chase an ambitious vision for your life.
#orangebook #Ambition #Vision #Uncomfortable