Kids don’t learn from what you say, but from who you are, and too many parents are constantly silently judging their kids, and then wonder why their kids ended up lacking in confidence and creativity, when the answer is very simple:
because they spent their whole lives trying to get a positive evaluation from the very people who were only supposed to love them unconditionally,
and as a result, were scared of being wrong, never took any risk, and never became who they truly wanted to be, or rather, never even got the chance to explore who they truly wanted to be.
#orangebook #parenting #confidence #self-discovery
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The best things in life happen offline and are not documented.
The ordinary walks and laughters with your family.
The long conversations in person with old friends you effortlessly trust.
The satisfaction that comes with tough trainings done with peers who also value their growth as a person.
It’s so easy to lose track of what you truly value, especially when you are surrounded by people who are confidently wrong.
Earn your freedom online, then learn the value of being disconnected, that’s when you will start truly living your best life.
#orangebook #OfflineLiving #RealConnections #MindfulDisconnection
When you have clear goals, you seek silence to focus and get things done; when you don't, you seek noise, new people, short-lived stimulation, and anything to distract yourself from the fact that you don't know what you want from life.
#orangebook #goal setting #self-awareness
Most anxious people are just people who are trying to have everything under control, including other people around them, when they should instead just focus on improving themselves and have faith in the fact that we all get what we deserve in unpredictable ways.
#orangebook #anxiety #selfimprovement
People who have something to hide tend to suddenly distance themselves for no reason, but it's actually good news, you want to build relationships with people who have nothing to hide, these are the only ones that will last anyway.
#orangebook #trust #transparency