Tidbits from my 2016 journal:
“I remember as a kid LOVING art. I used to be a decent singer in music class. I used to make hundreds of videos. I used to dance. I also had this urge to act. I also loved making slideshows and movies. When I think now to what I could even do creatively, I don’t know! It all seems quite unattainable. I also used to write my own stories. Wow, I did it all. I hope these workshops help me find what my creative passion is.”
I want to take her hand and give her a big hug. I want to tell her that ten years later her creativity will be the lifeblood of her work. That she willl write stories and poetry online where over 700 people sign up to read them. That she will dance all the time. That her voice will be played daily across the world through a meditation app and she will have people writing often about the impact on their life.
I want her to know it will look nothing like she is imagining. That she will start guiding movement experiences for people’s liberation and expression and she will have never seen anything like it before it happens. That she will create her own path.
I want to tell her to keep trusting. To keep living. That her heart will get broken and it will be the best thing that ever happens to her.
And that ten years later, she will be so herself, that her life will reflect it in every moment.
Katie ⌁
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I write about beautiful moments. And I like to talk some shit. Relationships through an energetic lens.
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@🟠 isolabellart if you ever need more sunset inspo, here is a collection of 4 from the same night in Carlsbad, CA Jan 2nd, 2020


It is a privilege to feel deeply.
Take me to the place with no words
Where all I can feel is my heartbeat
Or the twitch in my left thigh
And the kink in my neck
Take me to the place with no words
Where no one is waiting
Expecting or wanting
Where my only witness is the ghosts of my own psyche
Take me to the place with no words
Where there is no separation
Where I am it
And it is me
Where the word pain simply means to be
Take me to the place with no words
In the dark
In my body
In my soul
This place, being no place at all
Where sound is what holds me
God is what moves me
And every single moment
Simply is for me
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Join me Tuesday Jan 13th at 3pm EST for an embodied movement ceremony. $55 and women only.
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REUNION Women's Workshop

Turn on your sound to be transported somewhere magical. I want everyone to visit this place, no matter where they are, physically. Download the full 24 minute audio journey. You can DM me your email and I will send it to you.
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Meditations — Julia Partyka
Our pond has been looking glorious over the last couple weeks and it was calling my name. But we’d have snow then melting and a few days above zero which made it look amazing but also had me think it wasn’t thick enough. Well, yesterday was so cold I thought, “I gotta go test it and see”
It was PERFECT. I got my dad out to come safety watch, put on my skates and was a kid again. 2 hours later we were hit with a blizzard and it was buried.
I am always reminded to make moves on those nudges I get, even if I’m the only one who wants to explore it. Life moves fast. Windows of opportunity close. Go play. ❄️
Merry Christmas everyone 🎄
In my morning element. GM everyone ❄️


#asknostr how do you send emoji reactions to posts that aren’t “likes”? 😂
Yes, 4 months in and I am asking now lol
Yesterday I was with a man and I danced.
For me.
For Her.
Only.
And he watched.
Unlike anything I have ever done before.
So much of my life, I’ve felt the need to speak.
To bring the vastness of my soul and the consciousness it is connected to, through the succinct articulation of my words.
As if that is the only way to give.
As if that is the only way to be seen.
As if I must always Know.
But yesterday I found another way.
A way so true and close to my heart that it felt like the only way I could have done it.
My desire for our time together was to be witnessed in the truth of the moment.
That’s it.
And as I was looking into his eyes and my mind started to lock up with, “What’s in there? What wants to come out?”
All I could hear is
Move.
He clears space on the floor, blanket down and I get on my knees.
Feel the earth.
Breathe.
Music comes on and I let it touch my insides.
The ocean swells.
Ahhhhh comes a sigh.
My chest bubbles and I know it’s coming.
Sobs.
My hands on the floor hold me steady.
Bowed in devotion to the very thing that tethers me to the now.
Earth.
I can feel him there.
But my eyes remain closed.
This is for me.
The big thing that’s lives inside that feels like it might destroy me at any second moves through my system in waves.
An ocean within moves my limbs.
Eventually
I rise.
The music becomes more sensual.
Mmmmm.
The alchemy.
My hips start to dip.
The primal pose of a woman in service.
Legs spread.
And then I hear it.
Look at him.
Fuck.
To see and be seen in this.
Can I do it?
Yes.
This is why I’m here.
Ever so gently I open.
Never leaving myself.
But letting him in deeper.
And then they close again.
And open.
And close.
Full permission for my own pace.
He watches.
With reverence.
Respect.
Intention.
I smile.
The tension slowly disappearing from my body.
It’s out.
And I’m here.
Still alive.
And loved.
This is for him too.
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To witness and be witnessed is an erotic act. It is to let yourself be moved by what is being revealed in front of you… without leaving your mark. Tomorrow (Tuesday Nov 25th) at 3pm im holding an online workshop where men and women are coming together to explore the relational skill of witnessing - one that I think can have major transformational effects on relationships, and the humans in them.
If you’d like to join us, it’s $99 and you can bring your partner.
Scroll down on my main page to see the button for single registration:

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REUNION — Katie O'Connor

Years ago, when my ex and I were discussing some things after we broke up, he said to me, “I’m sorry I have been critical of your emotions. I realized that it was uncomfortable for me to see you in your emotions and pain so I tried to make you wrong for it so I didn’t have to feel my own shit.”
Me being “fragile” was a consistent pattern in our relationship. Now, I am so clear that that was a reflection of my own beliefs playing out in him. But hearing him say that really clicked something in.
When you start to see the bigger picture of what is playing out, it begins to shift the whole dance.
Because when we don’t have language for what is happening, it’s very difficult to have a relationship to it.
Having language for a sensational experience and relational dynamic creates an opportunity to separate ourselves from it.
And with that, (combined with deeper capacity work) comes agency.
I see so many couples where there is this gap where they cannot meet each other. Like a black foggy hole between them they keep circling but cannot meet in.
One of my gifts is that I can see the meeting point. The very spot of truth that, if acknowledged, would create more energy and movement between them.
I used to see this with my parents and it would frustrate the shit out of me. Many times I would inappropriately jump in to translate for them in order to soothe my own sensation. But now, I use this gift to illuminate things for men and women so they can see and feel the dynamic that is operating more clearly.
One of the things I am doing with this REUNION series, is giving language and a practice field for specific relational areas that often give us challenges. Not so things can be fixed, but so you can have more literacy of what’s happening and therefore the ability to relate to it differently.
Witnessing is one of those areas I see an opportunity for. It has the power to really transform connection and the individuals involved.
To witness is to take your hand off the wheel of control.
It is to stay on your mark and let someone fully be as they are.
It is to trust.
Next week’s workshop is going to go deep into Witnessing, for both men and women. I’m opening it up as a standalone workshop.
If this is resonating with you, and you want a frame for you and your man or woman to work with in those stickier spots, I’d love to have you both there.
It’s on Tuesday November 25th at 3pm EST.
$99 per person and there is a recording.
DM me for the link.
Singles are welcome as well of course.