GM ❄️☀️

I have heard men complain about the fact that they will match with women on dating apps and send them a message and the women will often not respond. Let me offer something: If your opening message is asking a woman: how her weekend is going how her evening is going what she’s up to this weekend/ evening Or any other dry toast question that one would ask a friend where there is already an established relationship, you are severely hurting your chances. She does not want to tell Matt, 37, what she’s up to right now. Because you know what she’s up to? Probably lying on her couch scrolling through hundreds of men trying to find one iota of heat between her legs. Tell her why you want to get to know her. Express your intentions, desires or what it felt like to see her profile. And if you can’t because you just quickly swiped and you’re not actually that interested, go play a video game instead.

I’m seeing a number of people close to me rely on chat gpt too much when it comes to their spiritual and emotional health. And when I say too much, it’s because I’m watching a specific type of neuroticism start to happen. The kind that disconnects them from their soul and creates a mental world that is inorganically coded. It is dangerous and dark. We do not need all the answers. We need to live. We need to feel. And we need to remember our own biological intelligence. This addiction to understanding is the thing that will take us further from our souls. It is where we don’t understand that God can actually show us miracles. It’s where spiritual evolution actually happens.

#asknostr how do you send emoji reactions to posts that aren’t “likes”? 😂 Yes, 4 months in and I am asking now lol

GN

Y’a know, it’s really fucking brave to say no to what is “standard” and comfortable and to take a risk to start building outside of it. In all the ways that we are doing this, it’s brave. Every person I see taking their own kind of risk and sharing their own gifts to make something new. And we will be the ones that those who were less brave will come to when they need it. And we will welcome with open arms and hearts (hopefully) because that’s what leadership is. We are building for them. And it can be lonely on the way. But people will be in deep gratitude one day (if they’re not already.)

GM 🫶🏻

Everyone wants to be seen until they realize it highlights the chasm between them and the masks they are wearing.

In the 50’s men used force to dominate their women, and many men of this generation look back at those relationships with longing thinking that’s what they want. They want the power and the nurturing it appears those relationships gave. They want peace after dating in a world where they feel emasculated and many modern women think they’re better than men. But the thing is, they don’t actually want those kinds of relationships, they want what those kind of relationships were trying to achieve. What they actually want is natural polarity, devotion, purpose and legacy. And many are looking in the wrong places. I think we’re at a time where that is totally available, but they’re going to have to stop evaluating women on the surface, and start paying attention to how they feel in a woman’s presence - which means, yes, they’re going to have to get offline and go talk to women in real life. These kind of relationships, with these kinds of woman will change the world. They are creational. They are not just a simple little family in the woods. They create worlds.

Recos for hosting MP3 files? Just tried to make a SoundCloud account with my proton email and they blocked me because they think I’m a robot 🤖

Just saw an article about the risk of quantum computing to Bitcoin. Talk to me like I’m 5, how much of a risk is this to consider?

Is there an app where I can drop voice notes the way I do typed notes and they would show up in the NOSTR feed? I’m on an iPhone.

I just learned 6 weeks ago that Bitcoin is finite and fundamentally different than Crypto. I worked at a tech start up with 12 guys in 2017 who tried to teach it to me and I don't think that was ever mentioned. This fact was the KEY piece that clunked something in for me and is a big reason my interest around this whole world has opened. I think there is a major education opportunity available.

I want to start accepting Sats for some online courses. What’s the best way to do that? Would be ideal if I could add a pay with Sats button to my website and manually add people in so I don’t have to host them somewhere else as well. Looking for a simple way to do this that doesn’t involve much dev but if there are clear instructions I feel like I can learn most things. #asknostr

You’re ready for the fall of fiat but are you ready to fall in love?

Got my podcast onto @Fountain Thanks to those who recommended it! One of my favourite episodes which feels very relevant to these times was one I recorded last fall with my friend Sarah, called Am I Willing? She shares about an important initiation she went through in choosing to publicly speak up on a topic that lost her friends but catapulted her into a new chapter of self expression. We ended up in a deep dive masterclass level conversation about the spiritual practice of honest and authentic expression on the internet. What it looks like on the back end to say yes to the call, even when you know it might cost you relationships. The internal process of holding yourself in the face of projections. Using the entire experience as medicine for your expansion. The actual responsibility we have to speak on what is ours. And navigating it all with an open heart. Take a listen: https://fountain.fm/episode/KejeFotpZDmjcBSL1XrM

Who has used wavlake? Wanting to host some guided mediations and possibly audio courses on NOSTR.

I think I found my place here. Hey, I’m your anti establishment relationship coach. Are you ready for the fall of modern day civilization? You might be getting your veggie garden in order but how’s your relationship with your partner? Sure, you’ve got your BTC in cold storage but who’s holding your heart? You’re clear on the value of tech transparency but what about emotional? You’ve got sovereignty over your finances but what about your sexual energy? If you’re clear on the value of decentralized money and social media but not on the value of a feminine presence while trying to overthrow the government, we’re going to have some fun.

I don’t think I’ve ever been anywhere where I enter a space and people are coming at me “give us a way for us to pay you!!” The ethos here is really incredible. Already feeling totally supported.

I want to share a bit about what has called me to NOSTR and how it feels. First, I barely know how any of this works 😅 I am getting my footing slowly but honestly, it feels vulnerable to be on a platform (even the right word? I guess the platform is Primal and the network is NOSTR?) where I don’t understand the infrastructure. I like feeling a bit shaky at the knees. And yet it’s a little overwhelming. I haven’t really cared to understand the philosophical side or technical side of freedom tech until now. I have been in the camp of “yeah that sounds great but I don’t think I’m ready to look at it yet.” I remember years ago trying to understand crypto at a technical level and my brain just couldn’t grasp the language. It was only recently when someone explained the ethos and philosophy around Bitcoin specifically that something clunked in and I was like “oh. YES.” I just learned that bitcoin is unique from other crypto. I’ve been in the study of universal law and energy for the past 4 years or so. I follow the current of what I’d call Truth. I naturally track how energy moves within people and between people. I can sense where there are kinks and leaks. I care deeply about men and women coming into right relationship with one another. And when I heard Bitcoin explained to me in the way it recently was, I really felt the cleanness of it. It feels like it matches universal law. It is starting to make sense to me in a language that I know. Ask me about nodes and mining and all these other pieces and my brain starts to slowly malfunction. But I know my mind works in a very specific way and it will come when it comes. And then I heard about NOSTR and similarly, have no real idea what the heck is going on, but I felt the curiosity and the yes. It’s time to bring myself here. I’ve spent the last 7 years very active on Instagram. I’ve had a lot to share with the world and in many ways it’s been an amazing place for me to express. AND I’ve felt how the energetic return back isn’t clean. I have a lot to say. I have a lot to offer. And it’s been incredibly difficult to build a business that’s integrous and takes care of me using that medium of expression. I’ve seen others do it - few. But it’s never worked for me. And there’s a lot I’m not willing to do to pimp out my essence for money. If I could share my work and my words without ever having to make a dime from it, that would be the best case scenario. I write because I love it. I support people because I love it. It’s my service. And, I know that the energy is meant to come back to me (and in many non monetary ways it really does). All that to say, expressing myself in an online network that feels cleaner and more oriented to Truth, feels like the next step for me. Not so that I can get anything out of it, but at least I know I’m contributing my essence in a place where it feels like people will really be able to receive it. I also trust I will be taken care of in my life and am committed to keep stepping towards what feels right- no matter how slowly. I am currently also putting attention on Substack and I’ve found the community there very different than the other platforms. Coming onto here, my god, the warm welcome I received last night smacked me. It was quite overwhelming! Haha. I like how it feels over here. Even if half the stuff I am reading doesn’t fully make sense to me. 😬 Even if I am just about to buy my first sats and need to rely on others to guide me through it. It feels right. So, to those who said Hi, thank you! I am intrigued to see what magic is made here together 🫶🏻