Have a personal brand in reality. Never limit yourself to social media posts...transcend digital and IRL realms. • Choose a fragrance. Make it your signature smell. • Choose your spots. Make them yours. Tip heavy, act like you own them. • Choose symbols. Make them yours.

Be strong for family's sake. You're their sanctuary and they will seek refuge in you when the the storms rises out there. #grownostr #redpill #nostr #coffee #amethyst #bitcoin

How women select men. Women have two, conflicting instincts when choosing men. On the one hand, women have the natural imperative to select optimal genetic traits, a.k.a "alpha" males. On the other hand, women want men who can materially provide for their families, commit to a long-term relationship, and enjoy interacting with children, a.k.a "good relationship skill." Women prefer high-status men. Women are seven times more likely to have sex with superior, rather than subordinate, men. To attract women, improve your social status. Give away stuff to make friends. Help less-fortunate individuals, to show that you're above average. Lead groups, e.g., captain your softball team. Dress well, Speak well. Women are conflicted about money. Women want "alpha" males who show off their money like peacocks show off their tail feathers, e.g., buying a round of drinks in a bar. But women also want "relationship" mem who put their paychecks into a mortgage. Confident men who believe that their powers or circumstances can handle stressful situations attract women. To attract women and improve your health. Learn to handle stressful situations with confidence. Women rate tall, strong, athletic males as "very desirable" marriage partners. Women are almost twice as likely to value physical strenght in men, as men are to value physical strenght in women. However, most women have to be realistic and would settle for a male just slightly taller than themselves, whilst preferring men with feminine-looking faces. Men with good language skills attract women. Women love talking. To improve your language skills, take a creative writing class. Or memorize a few romantic poems. Or learn a foreign language. Foreign women will think that a man who can conjugate verbs correcrly in their language will make a good husband. Women select men who are, on average, three and a half years older. Older men, in general, have more social status and emotional maturity. Women prefer men who have a steady job, are dependable, and are emotionally stable. A predictable man is boring and a woman will soon get bored with you to leave you for another. Unpredictable men are a good athing because it will keep her guessing and interested in the mystery that you are. Don't be predictable, you're better than that. #grownostr #redpill 🩸 #nostr #psychology

Why regret anything? Where does it get you to regret anything you've ever done in your life? It gets you nowhere. It's a pathetic emotion that you can wallow in. #grownostr #redpill🩸 #nostr

Tough lives create tough men. But not all tough lives are created equal. Some men will always be tougher than others. #grownostr #redpill 🩸 #nostr

Your life must be a progression towards ownership - first mentally of your independence, and then physically of your work, owning what you produce. #grownostr #redpill #nostr

Your attention matters. Where you place it determines the quality of your life. Give your attention to things, activities, and people that make your life better, not worse. #grownostr #redpill #nostr

Your life is just a collection of systems. ⁣ ⁣⁣ Fundamentally, your life is a system: a collection of processes that, together, reliably produces an intended result. Your life is a collection of individual sub-systems whether conscious or unconscious that make up the overall system that is your life: Immune System, Respiratory System, Financial System, Education System, Social Systems. Just like the human body relies on the respiratory system to breathe and the immune system to protect against illness, your life comprises various systems. When you recognize that your life is a collection of systems, a new world of possibilities opens up. By improving these systems, you can enhance your effectiveness, efficiency, and overall satisfaction in every aspect of your life. It's time to harness the power of systems. This is the true secret to consistent success. The Author James Clear once said "You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems" Your goal is your desired outcome. Your system is the collection of practices that will get you there. Losers only have goals... But winners have systems. Think of your career, health, finances, relationships, and personal growth, each an interconnected system influencing your journey. Your dating life is also an intricate web of interconnected systems waiting to be optimized. The more you focus on improving your life systems, the better results you’ll produce. It’s as simple as that.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Consciously or unconsciously, your dating life has multiple systems. ⁣⁣ Here are a few of them: Main Dating Systems 👇 - Online Dating Systems⁣⁣ - Cold-Approach Systems⁣⁣ - Communication Systems⁣⁣ - Frame control Systems⁣⁣ - Non-Verbal Systems⁣⁣ - Social Circle Systems⁣⁣ - Date-Setting Systems⁣⁣ - Relationship Systems⁣⁣ And much more. Your success in your dating life is determined by the quality and the accuracy of these systems. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I had this insight a few years ago. I once read a great book called "Work The System" by Sam Carpenter... And while I was working on building an E-commerce brand with my business partner, I realized that in order to increase our profits and become more efficient, everything came down to optimizing our systems. ⁣ And since having this “System” approach to business, that’s when things started to flow more easily in business. Then I did the same thing for my Health and I really noticed the shift in my well-being when I had positive processes in place.⁣⁣ Then I did the same thing with women. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I built reliable systems, to meet, attract them, and finally retain them and even make money with them.⁣⁣ Remember, each system within your life is interconnected. Enhancing one system can positively influence others. Each system has a ripple effect of positive change that spreads throughout your entire life. Example: When you work on improving your dating life, you also improve your health, your ability to make money and communicate with others, and your confidence and self-esteem go up. You have to understand that those systems are working 24/7, creating all the results in your life whether you know it or not.⁣⁣ Tony Robbins said "Everything you're experiencing in your life right now is a direct result of the decisions you've made in the past" and I would add that every micro-decisions you'll make today will determine your future outcomes. ⁣⁣ Of course, you could have some misfortunes, but usually, everything is caused by individual systems that are constantly at work producing the ongoing results of your life.⁣⁣ If you want more success, take an honest at your life and look at all the systems and habits you have in place, are they serving you? ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ What would you optimize to get better outcomes? What changes can you make to make your life more productive and enjoyable? ⁣⁣ I can guarantee you that if you’re not dating AT LEAST 3 women each month, it’s because your dating systems and the practices you have are not optimal. ⁣⁣ #nostr #grownostr #redpill #weed #coffee #bitcoin #lightning #zap #zapathon #footstr #amethyst

A weak man will date any woman, as long as he’s not single. But a strong man will stay single until a woman who’s worth his times comes.

Life changes around you when you shift the energy within you. Use what's happening around you to discover the way you feel about your life and then choose to release the energy that keeps you from the happiness, love, health, wealth and joy you want to experience.

The hatred you carry for someone, is far more damaging to you than them.

Why "just focus on your purpose" is BAD advice. A lot of Red Pill YouTubers or Influencers will tell you: “Just focus on your purpose bro. Girls will come later down the line.” But this is probably the worst advice you can give men nowadays. This is because what you're ACTUALLY doing is kicking your dating goals and expectations with women to some far-off place in the distant future… So that you don't have to take ANY sort of action toward them in the meantime. This essentially becomes a “self-improvement” cult where nobody gets girls but still high-fives and circle-jerks each other at the fact that they're “working on their purpose”… (Which really just means watching Red Pill YouTube videos all day) And expects that they’re just magically going to attract women later down the line. Yet they fail to realize that EVEN IF they become rich and “high-status” they will STILL have to learn how to attract, seduce and escalate with women anyway. So if this is you, understand the following… There is NO other way to fix your dating problems than working on your DATING life; So instead of expecting your dating life to somehow work out without taking action… Start learning the proper systems and taking action to fix the problems you currently have in your dating life. Nothing great has ever happened by accident. Obviously having a purpose is very important, more important than women, but that doesn't mean you have to sacrifice your dating life and use that as an excuse to NOT take action. That's all I'm saying. #nostr #grownostr #amethyst #zap #weed #coffee #footstr #bitcoin