In a marriage, neither spouse should place themselves in environments where they will be surrounded by people actively seeking attention or intimacy from them.
For men, this often looks like “boys’ trips” to places where women are flirtatious, aggressive, and openly testing boundaries. No wife wants her husband surrounded by that energy — because even if he resists, the environment itself is unnecessary and disrespectful.
For women, the equivalent isn’t limited to wild party settings. The reality is that single men are everywhere — at beaches, resorts, tourist spots, restaurants — and they will almost always approach women in groups. A wife on a “girls’ trip” will inevitably face advances from men she doesn’t know, just as surely as a husband would on a riskier “boys’ trip.”
The principle is fairness: If wives would never want their men traveling into environments where women hit on them, then wives should respect the same standard when men inevitably approach them. Saying “it’s different” is not an argument — it’s ignoring the double standard.
Some will argue: “But nothing will happen — just trust me.” But trust is more than resisting temptation in the moment. Trust means not putting yourself in predictable situations where people will test that boundary again and again.
Others will say: “That’s too extreme — men and women exist everywhere.” True — but ordinary life (work, errands, daily routines) is unavoidable. Optional leisure trips that guarantee exposure to advances are not. Choosing them anyway shows that personal indulgence matters more than your spouse’s peace of mind.
The rule is simple: If it’s not okay for husbands to surround themselves with women hitting on them, it’s not okay for wives to surround themselves with men who will inevitably try the same. Respect cuts both ways, and in marriage, the standard must be mutual.
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My son needed to send money to his grandfather—my father-in-law—who lives in a different state. Unfortunately, my father-in-law isn't very tech-savvy, so digital payments weren't an option for him directly. We came up with a workaround: My son used Zelle to transfer the money to his mom (my wife). She then Zelled it to her sister, who lives in the same city as my father-in-law. Finally, my sister-in-law wrote a check from her account and delivered it to him in person. These are the kind of folks who'll never touch Bitcoin.
The truth hurts, so most people replace it with whatever makes others feel good. It’s easier in the moment, but those lies pile up and cause far more harm later. Some say people “aren’t ready” for the truth — but hiding it doesn’t prepare them, it just leaves them weaker when reality hits. Others say truth is subjective — but that’s usually just a way to avoid confronting facts.
Some argue that harsh truths damage relationships, but relationships built on lies are already broken. Others will claim you don’t have the full picture, but most truths worth telling don’t require every single detail to be obvious. And some believe keeping peace matters more than honesty, yet false peace always collapses under the weight of ignored problems.
The few willing to speak the truth — not to harm, but to help — are the ones who actually make things better.
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Yesterday in the Lowe’s parking lot, I saw an older woman slowly making her way into her car. Every movement was careful, deliberate — not because she wanted it to be, but because her body simply wouldn’t allow anything faster.
It made me think about all the times I’ve heard older people talk about “loving the slow life” and how “young folks need to slow down and enjoy things.” We romanticize that as wisdom… but in many cases, it’s not about preference at all.
When you lose the ability to do something, your brain works hard to make peace with it. It rationalizes your new reality, convincing you that this slower pace is somehow better. Not because it is better — but because believing that it’s better feels safer than confronting the loss.
And it’s not just aging.
We all do this.
We get stuck in jobs we say we “don’t mind,” in relationships we tell ourselves are “good enough,” in habits we pretend are “just our style.”
The truth is, we often settle not because it’s our true preference, but because our brains are excellent at making us comfortable with less than we’re capable of.
That comfort can be deadly to growth.
If you could move faster, work harder, love deeper, live fuller — would you? If the answer is yes, then don’t let your brain trick you into thinking you prefer where you are.
Comfort isn’t always a sign you’re in the right place.
Sometimes it’s just a sign you’ve stopped moving.
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The Hidden Crisis of Women’s Premarital Sex: A Call to Save Society
Imagine slashing divorces by 68.4%, saving $20.39–$27.35 billion yearly and generating $467.56–$758.45 billion over 20 years. By reducing the US heterosexual divorce rate from 19% to 6%—the rate for women who marry as virgins—547,200 fewer divorces annually would prevent 2,654–3,967 male suicides, keep 420,900–547,170 children in stable homes, spare 13,953 unborn lives from abortion, and rebuild communities. These staggering benefits expose a harsh reality: women’s premarital sex, especially with multiple partners, fuels divorce and its devastating fallout, while men’s sexual history barely impacts stability, as seen in gay male couples’ 7% divorce rate. Non-virgin women are the driving force behind this crisis, and the data demands we confront it.
The Numbers Don’t Lie: Women’s Premarital Sex Spikes Divorce
Women who marry as virgins have a 6% divorce rate within 5 years (Institute for Family Studies, 2016/2023), while non-virgin women with 2–10 premarital partners face 20%, and those with 11+ partners a shocking 33%. Non-virgin women initiate 70% of heterosexual divorces, pushing the overall rate to 19%. In contrast, men’s premarital sex has minimal effect—divorce risk rises slightly from 8% (0–1 partners) to 10% (10+), and gay male couples maintain a steady 7% rate (US, UK, Netherlands data). Non-virgin women are 2.9–4.7 times more likely to divorce than gay men, proving this is a women-only problem. Only 5% of US women marry as virgins, leaving 95% non-virgins to inflate divorce rates with their higher partner counts and disruptive behaviors.
Immediate Wounds of Non-Virgin Women’s Divorces
Non-virgin women’s higher divorce rates inflict immediate damage:
- **Economic Hit**: 800,000 divorces cost $12 billion ($15,000 each). Non-virgin women’s 20–33% rates drive this; a 6% virgin rate saves $8.21 billion.
- **Male Suicides**: Divorced men are 8–9 times more likely to die by suicide, with 3,880–5,800 suicides from 400,000 divorces costing $3.45–$5.16 billion ($1.3 million each). A 6% rate cuts this to 1,226–1,833, saving 2,654–3,967 lives.
- **Domestic Violence**: 20–25% of divorces involve abuse allegations, costing $10.5 billion. Non-virgin women’s 70% initiation fuels 82,076–136,793 cases; 547,200 fewer divorces save $1.58–$2.63 billion.
- **Housing Chaos**: 30% of divorces force home sales (240,000 cases), costing $10,000–$20,000 each. Non-virgin women’s divorces drive this; a 6% rate saves $1.64–$3.28 billion.
- **Mental Health Crisis**: 328,302–437,736 people need post-divorce support (30–40% of 1,094,340), costing $32.83–$43.77 million. Non-virgin women’s rates worsen this.
- **Lost Productivity**: Divorced workers lose 5% productivity, costing $5.47–$8.21 billion ($5,000–$7,500 per person). Non-virgin women’s divorces amplify this.
- **Abortion Surge**: Non-virgin women’s divorces fuel abortions, with 82,076 delaying motherhood to 35+ (30% of 273,600 women), causing 13,953 abortions vs. 1,642 if married (38% vs. 4% ratio, CDC, 2022). A 6% rate prevents 13,953 abortions, saving $18.7 million ($8.23 million direct, $10.47 million complications).
Abortion Surge: Non-Virgin Women’s Role in Unborn Lives Lost
Non-virgin women’s divorces fuel abortions by creating unstable lives that lead to unintended pregnancies. Of 273,600 women from 547,200 divorces, 82,076 delay motherhood to age 35+ (30%), facing higher abortion rates as unmarried women (38 abortions per 100 live births vs. 4 for married, CDC, 2022). This results in 13,953 abortions, compared to 1,642 if they remained married, meaning 13,953 abortions could be prevented by a 6% divorce rate, saving 13,953 unborn lives. These abortions cost $8.23 million ($590 each), with complications (5%, 698 cases) adding $10.47 million ($15,000 per case), totaling $18.7 million in savings. Non-virgin women’s choices to divorce, driven by 70% initiation and 20–33% rates, directly increase abortions, unlike men’s stable 7% rate, which supports family continuity.
Delayed Motherhood: A Tragic Cascade of Non-Virgin Women’s Choices
Non-virgin women’s higher divorce rates lead to remarriage, career focus, or prolonged singlehood, delaying motherhood and causing preventable harm to babies. Divorced women remarry later (average age 35 vs. 28 for first marriages, US Census, 2023) or prioritize careers, pushing pregnancies past age 35. This increases risks of congenital disorders (e.g., Down syndrome, 1 in 100 at age 40 vs. 1 in 1,000 at 25, CDC, 2024), preterm births (15% at 35+ vs. 10% at 25), and developmental issues (20% higher autism risk at 40, American Journal of Epidemiology, 2020). Stillbirths rise from 0.5% at 25 to 1.1% at 40, and miscarriage rates climb from 10% to 30% (American College of Obstetricians, 2024), costing $2.1 billion annually in medical care and lost potential ($15,000 per case).
For 547,200 divorces, 273,600 involve women who may delay motherhood (50% of couples). If 30% (82,076) remarry or focus on careers, pushing pregnancies past 35, ~12,311 additional babies (15% of 82,076 births) face health issues, and ~821–2,462 are stillborn or miscarried (1–3%). Had these women married as virgins with a 6% divorce rate, 164,160 fewer would delay motherhood, preventing ~24,623 health issues, ~1,642–4,925 stillbirths/miscarriages, and $378.81–$736.58 million in costs. Non-virgin women’s choices to divorce and delay motherhood selfishly risk their babies’ health, unlike men’s stable 7% rate, which supports earlier, safer family formation.
Ripple Effects: A Society Unraveled
Non-virgin women’s divorces create long-term devastation:
- **Wealth Drain**: Divorced households lose 50% of wealth, costing $210.45–$420.9 billion over 20 years. Welfare for single-parent homes (20% divorce-linked) costs $8.42–$12.63 billion yearly. Non-virgin women’s 33% rate fuels this; a 6% rate prevents it.
- **Broken Children**: 420,900–547,170 children face 25% higher behavioral issues and 20% lower graduation rates, with 210,450–273,585 in poverty and 126,270–164,151 missing college. Non-virgin women’s divorces shatter families; 547,200 intact homes save them.
- **Health Toll**: Divorce stress spikes heart disease (20%) and diabetes (15%), costing $6.31–$10.52 billion over 10 years (218,868 heart cases, 164,151 diabetes cases). Non-virgin women’s rates drive this; virgin stability curbs it.
- **Social Collapse**: Divorced individuals are 20% less civically engaged (218,868 fewer participants), and high-divorce areas see 15% more crime, costing $4.21–$8.42 billion. Non-virgin women’s divorces fracture communities; a 6% rate rebuilds them.
- **Fertility Crisis**: Divorced women have 25% fewer children, worsening the 1.6 US fertility rate. 547,200 stable marriages add 136,793 births, worth $4.21 billion economically, countering non-virgin women’s impact.
- **Education Losses**: 15% of divorced adults (164,151) pause education, costing $84.18 billion in earnings (84,180 degrees, $1 million each). Non-virgin women’s divorces derail progress; virgin stability supports it.
The Root Cause: Non-Virgin Women’s Choices
Non-virgin women’s behaviors ignite divorce. They initiate 65–70% of breakups (Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2018), show anxious attachment (Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 2020), demand financial independence (Journal of Family and Economic Issues, 2021), and reject infidelity (Archives of Sexual Behavior, 2017), unlike men’s commitment and resilience (Journal of Personality, 2022). Women with 11+ partners are 4.7 times more likely to divorce than gay men (7%), and those with 2–10 partners 2.9 times, while virgin women’s 6% rate aligns with men’s stability. Men’s sexual history doesn’t destabilize—gay male couples’ 7% rate and low male initiation (30% in divorces) prove men aren’t the issue.
A Wake-Up Call
Women’s premarital sex, especially with multiple partners, is a societal wrecking ball. If every woman married as a virgin, we’d save $20.39–$27.35 billion yearly, generate $467.56–$758.45 billion over 20 years, prevent 2,654–3,967 male suicides, protect 420,900–547,170 children, and spare 13,953 unborn lives plus thousands of babies from health issues. Non-virgin women’s choices—driving 70% of divorces and 20–33% rates—cost billions, shatter families, fuel suicides, and endanger future generations, while men’s stability holds firm. We must champion chastity to rebuild a thriving, united society. The stakes are too high to ignore.
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Divorce stats tell an interesting story: gay male couples have the lowest divorce rate at 7%, heterosexual couples sit at 19%, and lesbian couples top out at 34%. In straight marriages, women initiate 70% of divorces. The numbers suggest men are rarely the ones pushing to end relationships, pointing to their stability in partnerships across the board. #Relationships #DivorceStats #MenAreNotTheIssue
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