I hate I can't run my own email infra. (Since big email providers aren't going to accept my traffic). Is Nostr going to go the same way?? Eg, you can run your own infra. But it won't connect you to the big infra most ppl use..

My biochar beast, made in couple hrs last week.. Plan to make into a permanent build biside my house, head few thousand litres of water with it to heat my home over winter!

What's a great Nostr video. That explains how it works, including running your own relay and or how a self hosted relay works

Will Nostr relays become like Email servers.. Eg, won't listen to other small relays. Eg . I can't see many Normie's setting up or using multiple relays, they'll just install most popular nostr client and only use relays that client uses at default..