Retain your semen, refocus and use that energy to pursue passions and build things, your passion and success will attract women, these women will give you whatever pleasure you seek.
#transmutation #retention
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Commenting on #relationships #women #attraction #marriage
Take away your attention, take away her power.
#attention #power
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When she is complaining about an unimportant/drama problem, remember that she does not want a solution - drama is addictive and she like like it. Your solutions ruin her fun.
The formula is simple:
Listen to her
Repeat it back to her: "So your sister did ...."
Say: "That must make you feel ..."
She will think you are very insightful and connected to her.
#women #relationships
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Her arguments will rarely make sense as she lacks the ability to choose logic and reason over emotion.
#women
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She will resent you (or never date you) if she is the one that has to take the lead in life.
#attraction
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Free her from burden so she can have the mental space to welcome your sexuality
#women
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Things are not alwasy great. When you fail to fulfill an expectation, there can be upset. She will not be rational, but you must remain rational. Listen to her complaint and do not interrupt her. Take some time away if you need it. Rather than simply saying "I am sorry", it will go a long way if you can show her that you understand the impact of you failure.
You got home late and did not let her know? The imact is that she had to feed the kids and get them ready for soccer practice and now she is going to be late for her appointment.
When she becomes really upset about a breakdown like this, there may be other things going on under the surface - but you need to clean up the primary mess before you can move on to understanding the deeper issues.
Deeper issues may include: Her friends are really counting on her to be there on on time, her dad is always late for appointments and she hates that, etc ... or maybe YOU are always late and not communicating and this is a chronic issue.
#relationships #responsibility
That’s why they call them Pickup Artists and not Pickup Scientists
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#attraction
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Hope the big guy can pull it off but nerves are not a young man’s friend at a time like this.
#attraction
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If you don’t handle the dirty jobs, she will do it herself (or she will find someone who will do it).
#women
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The more dependable and consistent you become, the less she will share her opinions about useless things.
When you act like a child, she has space to question every actions, to be worried about your forethought and process.
When you consistently exhibit leadership and responsibility, the more at ease she will be. When she is at ease, she can rest her mind and free herself to be with you.
#leadership #responsibility
Marriage does not mean an end to sexual adventure.
Her needs change as she matures but backseat blowjobs do not need to be a thing of the past.
Provide leadership and take responsibility for all things. Free her of burden and she will happily be your sexual plaything.
#attraction #responsibility #leadership
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She can’t be your sexy plaything if you don’t treat her like your sexy plaything.
👙 🏏
#attraction
If you are compelled to text her about your bad day or about a current bullshit “crisis” you are having, so not push SEND. Will telling her accomplish anything more than putting your problems into her world?
Your goal is to keep her free of burden, not to give her undo stress over your passing problems.
#relationships #responsibility
She wants you to make smart decisions so she feels secure and taken care of.
#women
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Women think that men want the same thing that women want and constantly try to “fix” men because women cannot imagine that men are happy with themselves - so women do things that they think men want them to do, women give men gifts that they think men should want, and women feel sad for men who don’t live the way women think men should want to live.
Embrace your manhood.
#women
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Husbands who assume responsibility for all things in their family life will gain the respect and adoration of the women around them (and may encounter negativity from the men who live with those women.)
If you are tired of nagging, lack of sex, relationship angst - take full responsibility for your situation.
When you take responsibility for all things, you free your wife to spend her energy to please you, rather than spending her energy to manage you.
#responsibility
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Women think men are complicated.
Women simply refuse to accept how easy it is to please a man.
#women #relationships
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Free your wife of mental burden so she has space to be sexy.
The more energy she spends managing your life, the less energy she has to be with you.
#relationships #milf
This is why I suggest not going for dinner for the first date(s). Yes guys can burn through a lot of money, and there are also way better activities.
Best is to have her to your house to help you cook dinner. You see if she know anything about the kitchen, she swoons for man who cooks, and you are in the comfort of your own home.
#dating
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