Attention is her currency. View quoted note →

When YOU have a problem and feel compelled to tell / text your wife about it, STOP AND THINK - Why do you want to share this information with her? IF there is a direct & immediate impact on her, then yes tell her what is going on - (you were going to be home at 5PM but now you are delayed, you were going to do X task but now you cannot, etc) IF there is not a direct & immediate impact on her, then solve the problem BY YOURSELF and do not bother her with useless information. Maybe you will tell her about it later, maybe you will not. Keeping your wife updated on every little problem in YOUR LIFE only causes her undo stress. 😰 What is SHE supposed to do about YOUR dumb coworker? What is SHE supposed to do about YOUR dead car battery? What is SHE supposed to do about YOUR slow doctor appointment? A woman who in burdened with stress & responsibility takes on a more masculine role in the relationship - She will be less open to your leadership, less sexually interested in you, less feminine. #responsibility #attraction

Give her the gift of missing you #attraction #relationships

Attention is her currency. That why she says *PAY* Attention. #attention #women

Once you get her pregnant, your requirement to protect her increases even more. Her brain is not even functioning at its normal capacity, which already requires comfort and protection. 🐦 🧠 View quoted note →

If you are married and getting attention from other women - at work, at a party, at the grocery store, etc - your wife might act upset/jealous or she might just start fawning over you, touching you, etc. This is good for you. You are triggering feelings inside her that she must rebalance - just be prepared for some upheaval. If she is upset, do not stand down. It is a test that she deeply wants you to pass - She WANTS you to be frank and honest, do NOT tell her "oh I love you so much baby I would never look at another woman" - SHE WANTS YOU TO BE DESIRED BY OTHER WOMEN because that makes you VALUABLE, and thus increases her social standing. #women #attention

I am removing the NSFW accounts that I follow. It’s ok to look at a few photos sometimes, but constant exposure numbs the mind and makes it harder to do retention and less likely you a woman in real life. #retention

TV shows have set the expectation that men a lazy and fat. This does not mean that women are attracted to these things. Healthy, fit, ambitious men are the ones that attract women - and the same goes for your wife. She wants a leader & a partner, not another child. #leadership #relationships

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Your wife does not want to hear about Bitcoin because SHE WANTS YOU TO GROW A SACK 🫐 and handle the money and long term planning FOR HER. She does not want to worry or stress about it - SHE WANTS TO BE TAKEN CARE OF. IF she asks, fine. IF you want her alignment, fine. But she does not want to know the details because the world is confusing 🧠 and scary 👻 and it is YOUR JOB to protect her from all of this. If you cannot make decisions that relieve her of stress and headache, she will NEVER be unburdened enough to fully release herself into your ownership. #leadership View quoted note →

One of the easiest ways to trigger your wife's attraction (her need for your attention) is to start ignorning her mundane or gossipy text messages. These messages are just ways for her to keep tabs on you, to ping you and make sure you are still her little lapdog, responding to as quickly as possible, whenever she needs an attention hit. My wife texted me the other day "Fred and Wendy (Joe's brother) are getting divorced ☹️" I met Fred once and did not like him. I don't really like Joe either - so why should I care? Why should I respond to this? Leave her on "read" and go about your business - you have more important things to do than gossip with her. Deny her your attention and she will start to work harder to get your attention. #attention #attraction

The point in this is that your wife does not, in any way, want to treat you like a child. It is exhausting and a huge turnoff for her - but many men act like children, leave a mess, avoid their problems, let her manage everything in life - and then get upset when she doesn’t instinctively put on a corset and suck him off. She’s not sucking your dick because she is not attracted to you. Flip the script, do your damn job as a man, and she will go out of her way to please you. #responsibility View quoted note →

How to stop a nagging wife? Do what you say you’re going to do & when you say you will do it. If you are unable to complete for some reason, bring it up yourself (don’t wait to be “nagged” about it) and make a new statement about when/how you will complete the task. Over time, this gives her confidence that you will do the things that you say, and she can stop micromanaging you. #responsibility

She should be moving like this for you and nobody else. Women have the power structure all mixed up in their heads. A woman who is shaking her ass for attention is giving away all her power. Sure she might get some dollars, but she loses her appeal to any man that has an ounce of dignity. Having men actually lust for her gives her power. Selling herself to the highest bidder is giving away all her power to others. #women #power View quoted note →

If you give her a life free of worry and burden, she will willingly become your personal property. How to achieve this? Provide #leadership and take #responsibility for everything. View quoted note →

Liberal men are not attractive to feminine women. Inside their guts, women want to be protected and cared for. If she has to spend her time and energy keeping up with things that are her man’s responsibility (protection, taking out the trash, finances, big decisions, yard work), she will not have long lasting sexual interest in tha man because she is wasting energy thinking about your job. #responsibility View quoted note →

Keep her guessing and surprised 😮 My wife thinks I got her a vibrator or something similar - she had seen the box and yesterday she asked “when do I get the gift you got me?” “Spread your legs and place your hands on the the bed, mama.” 👮‍♂️ #relationships View quoted note →

Having sex without ejaculation puts you on a different frequency. You feel the hum in your body. This is where transmutation / sublimation can take place in the mind. Stay conscious, seed your thoughts with new ideas, and see what you can create. #retention #sublimation #transmutation

These are the messages you get when you provide #leadership and #responsibility

Somewhere around day 4-7 of retention, you will flat line - your hormones have settled and you won’t feel the pressing urge for release. Be sure to stay playful with your wife. Dabble in some erotic photos if you need the help, but do not worry - Your body will respond correctly when it is called upon. #retention