
Opened facebook for some reason and came across this post.... Wow this is so toxic!
This is my comments:
It's like he knows you like to lie and for some reason he's okay with it, probably because he lies too. This is NOT a good way to do marraige. The best way to have a long lasting and happy marriage is to tell the truth, and share all the big and small secrets. "I don't really want to ask for a snack, because I'd like to be healthy, but I actually would really appreciate one" would be a much better way of sharing than "I said I didn't want one".
This is part of why I wrote "How to Prepare Yourself for Marraige", because people don't realize that if they accept these seemingly little lies, they're actually creating distance between themselves and the person they're supposed to be the most intimate with. Reading someone's mind is BS.
Yes, I appreciate when my husband brings me home a snack I didn't ask for that specific time, but if I told him I didn't want one, he'd actually be violating my word, thinking he knows best, and not honoring me. It basically says that I can't be trusted if I were to say something like the image says.
Apparently I have strong feelings on this topic. π
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