I help high-performers escape their mental prisons | Internal Tech™ Pioneer | Ex-Chelsea/Barcelona Performance Coach | Author: GLITCH: the hidden code running your life (and how to debug it)| ₿
Our Behaviours are created in early childhood.
The stronger the disconnect felt the stronger the compulsion to be valuable (false love)to others.
This value is seen in 2 distinct ways
1. Gain value by helping others. People pleasing
2. Gaining value in objects / money / fame / achievements
Neither fulfill. They are both hamster wheels that you will have to run on until you see the prison nature of them.
Freedom from them comes from turning inwards.
You must be still to observe them.
This non doing - observing, will do everything.
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GM nostr early start giving a webinar this morning. Went with some turmeric, salt, potassium and butter with my milk for a bit of flava with my coffee #noice #coffeechain
Had a challenging client recently who had an infatuation with someone to the point of addiction. We decoded the story down to the simplest language. Using the hamster wheel framework to understand the dynamics.
She realised she was gaining control with her behaviour which gave her pleasure but with a high possibility of loss. This tightrope balance was the pleasure/ excitement point- charging her battery but with dirty fuel because when the encounter was over she felt empty.
Human behaviour is so complex but when we put the correct framework in place, we can start to see the truth and set ourselves free.
#meditation #mind #hansterwheels #hamstr #freedom