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Roman Simon
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Thinker. Explorer. Speaker. ₿usinessman. Sharing deepest insights from my personal experience.
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Roman Simon 1 month ago
To be popular amongst the sheep, you should behave like an elephant, not like an intelligent person.
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Roman Simon 1 month ago
There was a time, probably 15 years ago, when websites online started using advertisement banners too heavily — they were almost collections of banners instead of sites. That was when my mind developed a filter — it become resistent and I was literally filtering them out — I didn't see the banners, as if they didn't exist at all. The same thing is happening with "viral content" today. All these engagement tricks, hooks, baits, and all the other stupid crraappp that most junktent creators use just doesn't exist for me — I skip it completely — I don't see it and don't hear it.
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Roman Simon 1 month ago
I stop reading or watching something the moment they say "scientists..."
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Roman Simon 1 month ago
Men's looks do not come from genetics. They come from the mindset.
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Roman Simon 1 month ago
WHY OBEY EMOTIONS? It's amazing how emotions affect some people. For example, a man may be afraid to talk to a woman on the street when he likes her. A mixed cocktail of emotions starts filling his blood — fear, anxiety, uncertainty, worries, and many others. They paralyze him. Physically, there is nothing stopping him from doing what he wants. He could simply walk up to the woman he likes and say something, but he can't. The emotions fully control his physical state. He can't even take a step forward. How did he allow some emotions to control his life that much? Or perhaps a more accurate question is: why hasn't he worked on himself to gain conscious control of his body and his life? The animalistic state is the default. Animals are controlled by emotions, and children are controlled by emotions too. Most likely, he is stuck in a childlike state, which is why emotions fully control his behavior. To mature and take conscious control, you need to work on it. It doesn't always happen naturally. Sometimes we need to deliberately put our minds to this task. You need to build yourself into the person you want to be.
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Roman Simon 1 month ago
LET GO Letting people go is a very hard and painful process. It is even more painful if we are stuck in a childlike emotional state, because for a child, losing their parents meant death. So we fear it the same way we fear dying. But life is dynamic. Everything changes. People change, and we change too. Our goals change as well. Sometimes it is better to let some people go for the mutual benefit of everyone involved. At first, we may feel devastated, just as children would if their parents left them. But we are not children anymore, and eventually things return to a good state. Yes, we may feel very bad for a while, and that is a normal part of life. Whatever needs to be felt needs to be felt. Avoiding these emotions only makes everything worse. It's the time to move forward. image
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Roman Simon 1 month ago
There is no such thing as a bad car. Any car can be worked on and can become the greatest car ever. You just need to put the work in. You just need to decide to pursue greatness and put the work into it.
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Roman Simon 1 month ago
FOCUS DEFINES YOUR REALITY When you want to find faults and disadvantages in a specific car, you will find them. If you want to find strengths and advantages, you will find them too. Our minds are very powerful and work selectively. Whatever you focus on will be noticed and reinforced. If you focus on the thought that you are lazy, you will behave like a lazy person. If you focus on the thought that you are great and proactive, that is what will happen. Reality is filtered by our mind, focusing on something like a camera that captures only what comes through a focused lens. Think about who you want to become. Focus on that, and everything will change. image
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Roman Simon 1 month ago
WHY ARE YOU SAD? Whatever you think about yourself or believe about yourself is not necessarily true. You may be biased and in a exhausted emotional state, so you try to paint your image in a negative light. You are not undisciplined, dumb, or lazy. You are just sad right now and behaving in some way. Analyze your life. Recall all the instances when you used your positive side and achieved what you wanted. You have done it. There were times when you were strong, resilient, and intelligent. And now, because you feel sad, you believe that you are a loser. A car with deflated tires does not become a bad car. It just needs some service. You are not what you believe you are or what you think you are. You are what you choose to be. So be honest with yourself. Think about who you want to be and analyze it. You can do it. image
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Roman Simon 1 month ago
MAKING THE RIGHT DECISION Men who are afraid of messing things up will struggle in life. This fear usually comes from childhood, when we were criticized or yelled at for doing things wrong while trying to win acceptance and love by being obedient and good. At that time it felt necessary, because we believed we had no other choice. But now we are adults. That old tactic keeps us trapped in a childlike state. Our thinking, emotions, and behavior remain locked there. We become afraid to act because we might mess things up. We are afraid of feeling emotions because it once felt dangerous. We are afraid to want things. We are afraid to be ourselves. And this constant overthinking about making the right move or decision is eating our brains. Now the situation is even worse. When we were children, we needed the approval of our parents, and we knew exactly what to do to get it. Now there is no single person to please. So we keep trying to be good and do the “right” things for random people, hoping they will accept us — repeating the same pattern we learned in childhood. We become afraid of acting, of making mistakes, of being ineffective. We are afraid to decide. We are afraid to want things. When there is no one to please, we feel lost. This must be turned into an advantage. There is one person you need to please — you. You are living your life, and it is your responsibility to live it the way you want. You cannot know in advance whether something will be right or wrong, effective or ineffective. The only way to find out is to act, observe what happens, feel the consequences, and deal with the outcomes. Without action, you will never know. That is why the only real choice is to do what you genuinely want to do. Whether you think it is good or bad, effective or ineffective does not matter, because certainty does not exist beforehand. When you begin acting on what you truly want, life starts to feel real again. You begin to appreciate yourself. You start respecting yourself. Confidence grows. Competence expands. And step by step, you begin to win in life and feel happier. image
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Roman Simon 1 month ago
You can't become a man by listening to others. You can't become a man by submitting and obeying. You can't become a man by avoiding and hiding. You can't become a man by chasing and enjoying. You can only become a man through exploring. Everything. Bad and good. Weak and strong. Dumb and smart. Everything. And the only things that can stop you are fear and inaction. image
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Roman Simon 1 month ago
The more the chaos and the more desperate the people, the easier they are to control.
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Roman Simon 1 month ago
There can be no supernatural. Whatever seems supernatural is just something natural you didn't understand yet.
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Roman Simon 1 month ago
If you believe what politicians say, you probably don't understand that their speeches are written by their sponsors.
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Roman Simon 1 month ago
Women evolved to submit to the strong, the leaders, the inevitable. This is why they need and love discipline — doing whatever is necessary no matter what, as long as it is backed by a powerful enough reason. Men are defeated by discipline. It destroys the free spirit of men and transforms them into women. Men should cultivate the free will and never submission.
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Roman Simon 1 month ago
You can't convince a monkey that he is dumb. For the monkey he is the baseline of intelligence.
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Roman Simon 1 month ago
"I don't want the truth. I just want to be entertained. Make me laugh!" Fvkkkkk of stupid monkey.
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Roman Simon 1 month ago
Real estate is a very bad investment. It can't even beat inflation. You are just losing your wealth. "I bought a house 10 years ago and it costs much more now. It outperformed inflation 2x." You believe so, because you base your calculations on the official inflation numbers the government tells you and they are complete lies. Real inflation for the last decade is 11% and RE foes up 8%. "Where you get your info, smarty pants?" Internet is free and all the info is readily available. Here... "You are a clown!"
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Roman Simon 1 month ago
If you, as a man, dream about spending exciting time with the love of your life, running around and doing tiny little funny things together, you are gay!