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Roman Simon
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Thinker. Explorer. Speaker. ₿usinessman. Sharing deepest insights from my personal experience.
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Roman Simon 3 months ago
Things we need to remap to become effective: Fear >> Curiosity Defense >> Gratitude Doubt >> Acceptance Insecurity >> Excitement Embarrassment >> Self-respect Loneliness >> Pride Depression >> Call to action
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Roman Simon 3 months ago
The secret of endless success is this: remove the pleasure part from your decision-making. Plan everything you think is leading you to the results you want, then start getting pleasure from the process, enjoying the fact that you are moving toward your goals and achieving success.
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Roman Simon 3 months ago
Join my Telegram channels for deep stuff, guides, and exercises that will help you to build a great life. Links on warriorspath.club image
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Roman Simon 3 months ago
People want to be heard. If you just listen without judging, reacting, or defending yourself, most problems you have with people will disappear. "But what if they say something I disagree with?" If they wanted your opinion, they would ask. But they are talking, because that is what they need. Listen and say "I hear you". And that doesn't mean you agree or disagree. It just means you heard what they've said. That is enough in most cases to build a connection instead of distancing. "What if they attack me?" Is it really an attack? "You are stupid, because you forgot to do this or that." Is it an attack? "Why are you always so lazy, why can't you be like other normal people?" Attack? "I can't take you anymore, I hate you, you are disgusting!" Attack? People usually say this things, not because of you, but because they feel bad and their subconscious needs to find someone to blame to release the pressure. It is not actually an attack on you, it is just their weakness expression. And you trying to react and defend yourself, or counter-attacking won't make things better. It will only turn their weakness expression into a conflict. You can say: "I hear you, it is sad that you feel this way". And the negative energy they're trying to get rid of will just disappear. "But they will feel that I agree with them, and that I am weak, and they will start dominating me." Nope. You didn't submit or show any weakness in any way here. If they call you dumb and you agree, if they command you and you obey, then you are showing weakness, and they may start dominating. But when you say that you hear them and it doesn't affect you and your behavior doesn't change, you are showing your strength here. "What if they command me to do things I don't want?" Yes, that happens when people are emotional and are not controlling themselves consciously. In this case you do the same thing: no emotional reaction (you are calm because nothing dangerous happens, you are not afraid and you own the situation) and words of understanding: "I hear you and can understand your frustration. It is sad that you feel this way." "What if they insist — I said do this, are you dumb?" You continue: "Yes. I hear you. I am sad that you are angry. I will think about what you say. Thank you." If they continue, you can say: "Listen. This situation is really strange and it won't benefit anyone if we continue being emotional. Let's resolve everything later." All this is for people you know and have something common with: family, parents, spouses, friends, relatives. If you are dealing with strangers it will be different. I'll post my strategies in another post. So, your girlfriend or wife is emotional and states something dumb, as they usually do: "You don't care about me, you are this or that, why didn't you do your duties..." By defending yourself here you destroy your power. By attacking them, you show that you are weak. But by listening, you show that you own everything. "My girl, I hear you. Thank you for this information. You are always helping me to be better." You are the owner of your life. Behave like it! image
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Roman Simon 3 months ago
Someone "making" more money that you, doesn't mean they're smarter, better, create more value, understand anything better, or do something important. They could just find a way to exploit the system and extract resources. Take crypto scammers like Richard Heart or online prostitutes like Sophie Rain. The amount of money you make or have doesn't decide if you live a meaningful life.
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Roman Simon 3 months ago
The concept that you can take a pill to heal your health was a psyop scam from the beginning. The scam was so effective, that most people today entirely rely on drugs.
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Roman Simon 3 months ago
Bitcoin teaches real philosophy, because everything in it is backed by physics. And to learn and understand Bitcoin you need to learn and understand how the world actually works. That's philosophy.
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Roman Simon 3 months ago
Intuition trained on true information is a very effective, constructive tool for success. Intuition trained on delusions and lies is absolutely destructive and can enslave you forever. This is why the masses are miserable. They have been fed all the lies imaginable throughout the entire history of humanity. And this is why a select few dominate the world.
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Roman Simon 3 months ago
If you are trying to build your life around a woman, you have been deceived. Many interesting realizations are ahead of you.
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Roman Simon 3 months ago
Why are people on X so obsessed about their followers count? The algo doesn't care if it's 100 or 100k, it won't show your posts to anyone if it's not dumb ragebait engagement farming anyway.
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Roman Simon 3 months ago
When you are weak and something "scary" happens, you get stressed out, the pressure builds up, and you cry to release it, and seek help. When you are strong and something scary happens, you laugh. You can eat that wolf alive. Who's scared? Not you, for sure. So you don't cry.
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Roman Simon 3 months ago
When you, as a man, want to cry, you need to remember that crying is a mechanism the weak use to seek compassion. Whose compassion are you seeking? Why do you need it?
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Roman Simon 3 months ago
If you are asking your women for sex, you're not masculine enough. When you are, she will be all over you, begging.
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Roman Simon 3 months ago
The real obstacles that actually block our growth can't be jumped over willingly. You can only break them if something scarier is forcing you. This is why if you actually want to reach tour potential and conquer the world, you need to drawn in deep shiittt. image
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Roman Simon 3 months ago
When I post a deep detailed explanation of my perspective and you just comment that I am dumb, it shows that you are.
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Roman Simon 3 months ago
There is so much garbage everywhere, that quality gets buried in landfills of nonsense.
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Roman Simon 3 months ago
Pain is overrated, curiosity is underrated.
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Roman Simon 3 months ago
No one can advise anyone how to live their lives. You choose what to do and get the consequences you deserve. So, you better do whatever you want, because the consequences will be there anyway.
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Roman Simon 3 months ago
You are avoiding action because you believe you are not ready — not because you are actually not ready, but because of fear of the action itself. It’s an evolutionary fear. In the past, action was very dangerous, often deadly — any action. That’s the reason. You can never be ready. Because to be ready, you need to act. It is safe. If you mumble. If you get stuck. If you become embarrassed. Scared. If you lose yourself. If you appear dumb or incompetent. Even if you burst into tears. It’s safe. Nothing dangerous will happen. Accept yourself. Accept the world. Wake up and start moving. Pay attention to everything. Collect data. Analyze. Think. Change and grow. This is how you win and become successful. image
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Roman Simon 3 months ago
What you want and what you like is not the same thing. In fact, most problems men have come from confusing these.