Listen. I have a question for you. You have only one life, and there is so much exciting stuff going on in the world... How can you spend so much time on women?
Roman Simon
re4mat0r@nostrz.org
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Thinker. Explorer. Speaker. ₿usinessman. Sharing deepest insights from my personal experience.
Trying to awaken ignorant people when they don’t want it is meaningless.
It is much better to find individuals who are searching for the truth and help them by sharing your experience and guiding them.
So stop arguing. If your communication turns into an argument, you are talking to the wrong people. Let them enjoy their beliefs.
Millions of things happen in the world every day. But they are done by billions of people. You are only one of them.
If you want to do anything meaningful, you need to focus on one thing for a long period of time.
Trying to chase this “abundance” of experiences we see online is a death sentence. You are slowly digging your own grave. Stop it!
Start moving in the right direction, building your life step by step. 

As long as we are talking about a specific topic I'm interested in, I am listening and trying to understand your point of view. But as soon as the topic shifts to my character, I'm out. I know myself much better than you and am not interested in discussing it. Now you can talk to something you know the best, your dikkkk.
Not all interactions are about truth and principles.
I don’t demand that my mother or other women speak only rational or objectively true things. And I don't expect them to understand how the world works.
I don’t always challenge friends when they say delusional things.
Sometimes interaction is about connection and communication.
Not everyone is ready to let go of their delusional safe worlds and wake up to harsh reality. And that doesn’t mean we should reject them.
The most confident people I've ever met in my life were absolutely incompetent.
"Faith is taking the first step even when you don't see the whole staircese." — MLK
Now, imagine what you can do if instead of faith, which is believing in something blindly, just because you decided that, you understand that if you do your best and never stop, you can climb any staircase. 

THE SECRET OF SUCCESSFUL GROWTH ON SOCIAL MEDIA
Something most people don’t understand, which kills their growth on social media and buries their accounts in irrelevance, is this: focus on your target topics and target audience.
First, you need to be good at what you are doing, creating, or writing. Good doesn’t mean the best, or necessarily having credentials. Good means doing your thing and creating value. Additional points if it is unique or rare.
Second, and the most important step that actually kills everything — you need to focus on your target audience. Not just numbers, but the people who will love what you are doing. Anyone outside this group will harm your views, engagement, and growth.
Imagine you are a musician who creates classical compositions using a cello. To grow your account, you need to find people who love classical music, and cello in particular. Because they already listen to such music and like similar content, they will like and share your work too, if it’s good. Then the system will do the rest, making sure all cello lovers can discover your work.
But if you show your music to rappers who hate cello, for example, they will ignore or dislike it, and the system will receive signals that people don’t appreciate your work and will stop promoting it.
Even the slightest miscalculation in the target audience can kill all your efforts.
This is why you should not engage with random posts on X, for example. It might feel good to get large numbers of impressions and even likes on your comments, but it actually harms your account very badly.
Focus on your topic and area of interest. Don’t interact randomly. Only write posts related to your topics and comment on similar ones, leaving meaningful and valuable replies.
I made this mistake myself, and many others have done it too. It’s time to correct everything. 

If you want to be effective, to become smarter and more successful than the herd, you need to drop the natural lazy desire for magical explanations and dig deeper to understand how things actually work.
"There is this bearded guy who created everything and watches everyone punishing the bad guys."
"Soul is this magical thing inside us that controls us, but no one can find or measure it, it's metaphysical."
"Quantum physics says that there are things beyond reality itself."
Anything you believe is something you don't understand and it was put into your mind by someone. And they had their reasons, which were not "let's help them to become smart and successful".
It's time to grow up. 

HOW TO BE HAPPY
For the mind, there is no outside world. Whatever the mind does not perceive and cannot imagine does not exist. And whatever it can hallucinate becomes reality.
For the mind to be happy, it needs to accept itself, feel proud, and perceive favorable conditions for a prosperous future. And all these factors do not actually depend on reality.
You can be rich but imagine that someone wants to kill you, and therefore be stressed and depressed. You can be “poor” but work on your piece of land somewhere in the middle of nowhere and be happy. There are countless examples of this, and many books have been written about it.
This is why there are people who are successful in imaginary realities and are happy, for example, playing video games.
But this concept must be used wisely.
There is actual reality, which not only exists but heavily influences our lives. This is why hiding from it in fake realities is not a good strategy.
First. Understand that wherever you are is reality, and it is neither good nor bad, but simply what it is. Accept it and be grateful — you are alive and can breathe, think, and experiencethe world.
Second. Decide what you want in life. Who do you need to be to live the life you want? Describe it in detail. Start behaving like that person. Be proud of yourself for consciously building your life, which is very rare — most people just go with the flow.
Third. Appreciate everything you are able to achieve, as well as the challenges that force you to push yourself even harder. Be grateful for such opportunities.
Fourth. Notice that you behave like the person you want to be, so you are that person. Be proud of yourself. You are winning and building the life you always wanted.
Fifth. Whatever happens, always remember — it is just information. What matters is what you do with this information and how you use it to your advantage. As long as you are alive, you are winning and building the life you want.
— Warrior's Path 

You don't need time to completely change your life and become happy — you need understanding.
Imagine you are a fish, but you have been brainwashed into believing that you need to fly to be happy. You understand that it will never happen no matter what you do, and you become depressed.
Now imagine someone explains to you that you are a fish and that you should swim to be happy. Imagine you truly understand that. That is enough to completely change your life. How much time did it take?
Now imagine you are depressed because you are poor, and no matter what you do, you are not becoming rich. That is depressing.
Now imagine someone explains to you that your life is actually worth a trillion dollars — that you are, in fact, the richest person in the world and can actually achieve anything. How will you feel after that?
Everything is in your head. The world is merely something you perceive.
— Warrior's Path 

2 PATHS TO PEACE AND HAPPINESS
The first is convincing yourself that you are who you are and that it’s not your fault you are here living this life. It’s just luck, God, or an unfair world. But it’s okay to be yourself in whatever state you are in. You are a good person and can live your life the way you feel. Just be yourself.
The second is understanding that you are somewhere in the middle of your potential, and that a much more advanced version of you exists — one that lives a far more exciting life. To level up and embody that version, you need to embark on a journey of exploration and progress. There will be obstacles and hardships, but you will handle them, because you are brave. Greatness awaits you.
Which version of happiness will you choose?
IS LEARNING GOOD OR BAD?
There are two fundamentally different types of learning — constructive and destructive.
The first one is supported by pleasure. It feels easy, light, and entertaining. You watch videos, read posts, listen to podcasts, and your brain gets stimulated. It feels like learning, but it’s not. It’s mental masturbation. You are not building anything — you are just rubbing your brain in a comfortable way to get a small dose of pleasure. Like petting a cat. Nice, calming, pointless.
This type of “learning” never creates competence. It doesn’t change how you act, what you can do, or what results you get. It only makes you feel informed while keeping you weak and delusional. Over time, it trains you to avoid difficulty and crave stimulation. That is destructive learning.
The second type of learning is enforced by pain.
You need something in real life. A result. A skill. Power. Money. Control. So you go and try to get it — and immediately you hit resistance. You fail. You feel stupid. You feel frustrated. Nothing works. That pain forces you to think. To analyze. To adapt. To act differently.
You don’t learn because it’s fun — you learn because you must. Every mistake hurts. Every failure exposes your incompetence. And the more pain you feel, the harder your brain is forced to work. This pressure creates real understanding. Real skill. Real growth.
When you finally get it — when the thing that used to hurt no longer does — that’s learning. You didn’t consume information. You transformed yourself.
Pleasure-based learning weakens you. Pain-based learning builds you.
One feels good.
The other makes you effective.
— Warrior's Path
You don’t stop living your life when you become old. You become old when you stop living your life.
I know 35-year-old guys who are so tired that they don’t do anything. I know 75-year-old men who live their best lives and continue exploring the world and pushing the limits of what is possible.
It is not about age, but about mindset. You decide how old you actually are.
Mangan is 70. 

Most people are delusional because they don’t understand the concept of incentives.
Take the moon landings, for example. What was the goal of humans landing on the moon? Did they want to get something from there? Build a base or create something new? No. The only goal was to show the world that they were capable of doing it.
Could it have been done in a different way? Of course. Hollywood has existed for more than 50 years and has produced far more complex special effects. Why would they actually risk everything and land on the moon when they could achieve the same goal by staging it?
Analyze everything through incentives perspective and you will see a completely different world.
People who do big things are not stupid. Everything is driven by incentives. 

Do you know what the hottest sexual fantasy most women have is?
There is this weird new tendency online. Fake AI videos where women say whatever immature boys crave to hear. These videos attract millions of dorks. Reality will be so distorted in several years, the Great Reset will happen naturally 

Heated "discussions" on X are like swarms of angry dogs barking at each other. You can't go in and start communicating logically. The only reaction will be louder barking.
The most effective way of teaching children and helping them to grow is not distorting reality into a fake, safe, and comfortable environment so they feel good learning. It's exposing them to the harsh reality of life in a controllable way. Children need to fall and get hurt to mature. Your overcaring kindness is raising puppies.
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