If someone compares you to a bird, would that offend you? What about calling you a fish? Probably not. Yet when people say you act like a child or call your behavior childish, most of us feel insulted and rush to defend ourselves. Why?
Being like a bird isn’t bad for a bird — it’s perfectly normal. The same goes for a fish. But if a fish started acting like a bird — flapping around on land instead of swimming — that would seem strange and out of place. It would suggest something is wrong: the fish isn’t in its natural environment or is trying to be something it’s not.
Children are wonderful. Their traits — curiosity, playfulness, shyness, naivety, even occasional delusion — are not only normal but essential for their stage of life. These qualities help them learn, explore, and grow safely. However, those same traits become ineffective, even harmful, in adulthood. A mature person faces different challenges and pursues different goals. Clinging to childish patterns as an adult often leads to frustration, unfulfilled potential, and unhappiness.
So why do we get defensive when accused of acting childishly? Because we see ourselves as adults — and we want others to see us that way too. Being treated as a mature, capable person is central to our identity. When someone points out childish behavior, it challenges that identity. It implies we’re falling short of the role we believe we’ve earned. The offense isn’t really about the word “child”; it’s about the threat to our self-image as grown-ups.
Chronological age alone doesn’t guarantee psychological maturity. While the body grows automatically with time, the mind matures only through experience: facing real challenges, overcoming fears, enduring struggles, and learning from consequences. These difficult but natural processes shape a child into a resilient, responsible adult.
In today’s world, however, life is often engineered for comfort and safety. Many of the hardships that once forced growth are now avoided or softened. As a result, large numbers of people reach physical adulthood while remaining emotionally and mentally childlike — trapped in patterns that no longer serve them.
The good news is that this isn’t permanent. With honest self-reflection and clear guidance, you can recognize immature patterns in your own behavior. And through targeted practices, real-world challenges, and deliberate effort, those patterns can be replaced with mature, effective ones.
If you’re ready to examine this in yourself and take practical steps toward genuine adulthood, detailed insights, self-assessment tools, and step-by-step exercises are available to members of Warrior’s Path.
Roman Simon
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She will listen to you carefully only if she has a chance of losing you. Don't mess it up, don't become her little brother.
A lion that never roars loses his power.
The fear of social awkwardness and embarrassment is one of the strongest fears humans have, and it prevents us from achieving our potential. Whoever has no such fear, or can overcome it, can conquer the world.
By doing your best and reaching your potential, by taking care of yourself first, you are actually doing good for everyone — for yourself, your community, society, and the world.
The higher you climb and the more effective you become, the greater your impact will be.
You can’t do much good if you are homeless, broke, and miserable. But you can do a lot if you are intelligent, capable, wealthy, and powerful.
So if you truly want to make the world a better place, start with yourself. Become as good as you possibly can. Rise as high as you can. Climb the highest mountain.
From there, you will see the world more clearly, and you will have far more leverage and influence to change it.
The secret that directly leads to success is simple: try things.
The more you try, the better you become, and the higher your chances of succeeding.
In the modern world, there is a lot of noise, and outcomes are not always determined solely by what you do. Randomness and luck play a role as well. But when you try again and again, you exponentially increase your chances.
By trying, you don’t just improve your skills — you also bring luck onto your side and shift the odds in your favor.
The universe needs balance to function properly, so everything has two opposite sides — yin and yang.
Day and night. Hunger and satiety. Fear and love. And to be healthy, we need to be sick sometimes.
To feel happiness, we need to experience misery. To feel pride, we need to face fear. And to grow, we need to endure pain.
This is why we should never avoid anything. All emotions and states are necessary.
Don’t try to avoid anything — whatever happens is exactly what you need to become yourself.
When you try to avoid something, you impede your destiny and distort your connection with the universe.
— Warrior's Path 

Pity never leads to anything good.
People need to admire you to participate in your life positively.
Otherwise, they become jealous, envious, and resentful when they do something for you.
But when they admire you, they contribute willingly and feel grateful for the opportunity to be part of something greater than themselves.
She will try to lock you in, make you serve her needs and purpose, and if that doesn’t work, she will become angry and resentful, and eventually start hating you.
No one actually cares if you are sick or feel bad, or if something terrible happens to you.
At first, people will pretend to care to signal virtue. But if you don’t overcome your problems, they get tired.
Are you sick again? Problems, again? Tired, again?
This is human nature. Act accordingly.
No one actually wants to do the work.
Some people pretend to like it because they understand it has to be done to achieve results.
But they are not genuinely interested, and they won’t be curious enough to go deep and understand the process.
They will not do more than what is strictly necessary to get through it.
Anything that is not forced by nature or the environment will be avoided.
This is human nature. 

Everyone has bad days. But you don't need to show it to anyone. People will always remember your weakest states and use them against you. Everyone. Even the closest people. It's human nature.
Even children understand it. What about you?
If you believe that there are terrorists who are simply evil and want to do evil things, you have been brainwashed. You probably also watch WWE and Marvel movies, believe in democracy and freedom, participate in politics, and root for “your” party. You would likely go to war to defend “your” country as well.
This is called being an “adept” — someone who has been adapted to be easily controllable and exploitable.
Enjoy your freedom. 

The relationship modern "men" seek.
This is absolutely crazy and life-changing wisdom... 🤯
Sheep don’t fear wolves because wolves did evil things to them. Shepherds do far worse things, yet sheep don’t fear shepherds. Sheep are terrorized by wolves because, on a genetic level, they perceive wolves as evil.
I had this problem myself, and most people I liberated and helped had it too. This is the reason people are afraid of trying and stepping out of their safe comfort zones. Without changing this, we will always remain at the sheep level.
Deeper analysis and step-by-step guides are available for members of Warrior’s Path.
The effort actually needed to achieve success is hundreds of times greater than we expect. This is why most people fail. Only those who are brave, curious, and obsessed with the process succeed.
Children are easily affected by propaganda. If it says you need to be a cat, you will try to become a cat. If it says men should serve women and be their slaves, you will try to do that. But it won't work if you are a man. Men do whatever is right, not what others say.
You are a woman. When you do something and bad things happen you just start crying. Men, on the other hand, will fix the problem.
By hiding your weaknesses and insecurities you remain weak. Expose them and grow instead. There will be no other life. Hurry up!