The only way to reach your maximum potential and achieve greatness is when the universe forces you to. And that can only happen if you always try to bite off more than you can chew.

Fail better.

The problem is the fear. If you are afraid, you are operating from a weak feminine submissive frame. You can't lead, create, dominate, conquer, and be at your maximum potential while you are in this frame. Stop. Think. Analyze. You need to understand why are you afraid and pushed into submission. When you do this, you can flip into a strong masculine frame. This is where you can shine and win anything. The key is to understand this.

You don't become great and achieve success by safely serving someone. You become great by curiously exploring the world and bravely taking risks.

Women can't be partners to men. If you don't understand this, you can try and see it for yourself.

There's this common mediocre state most people are living in. They don't understand most things, are incompetent, full of beliefs and delusions, and very fearful. A common man views the world only from his point of view. So, if he's delusional and incompetent, that should be the default "normal" state. Anything above will elicit resentful hate. Anything below — contempt and neglect. This is why extremely intelligent and competent people like Elon Musk who want to be accepted and loved by the masses, say things like "I know that I don't know", "I am very lucky", or I am often wrong". They pretend to be normal, like a mediocre average Joe.

THE SCARCITY MINDSET Most of the fears we experience in life, especially with women, come from a scarcity mindset. In the past, resources were limited, and our defensive mechanisms were designed to protect what we had. To reproduce, we needed to find women and have sex. Because it was a rare and valuable act, we treated it as something extremely important and could not afford to fail. Any wrong behavior could prevent us from reproducing, and our line could die out. Most people who reproduced back then treated this seriously and were very careful. They passed their fears on to us. Nowadays, everything has changed. Society has grown so much that the problems our ancient fears were solving no longer exist. Now, you can meet new women every day. You can behave however you want, even in the most ineffective ways, and still have sex. This is what we need to understand, and then start building our lives from that place, freeing ourselves from all fears. When you are on a basketball court throwing balls into the basket, you can try different things and shoot as many times as you want. But if you were told that you only have three shots and then you die, you would be paralyzed. This is exactly what happens when we obey our fears, which believe women are scarce. But you can’t change this just by reading. To truly understand it, we need to prove it to our bodies through experience. We need to feel abundance. This is a universal problem that affects many areas of our lives, and we need to work on it step by step — gradually experiencing abundance in all areas. First, we need to start communicating. Everything begins with communication, and we need to feel abundance here. Start talking to people — everyone you can. Try to go beyond small talk. Ask questions, share your opinions, give compliments, tell stories. If you can approach random people on the street and start a conversation, the scarcity problem will begin to disappear. If you make it a habit to speak a bit longer with several people during your usual daily life, the scarcity mindset will fade. Then, approach women you like anywhere. Start talking. Show interest. Also, set up dates and actually meet women. Don’t make a big deal out of it. Just go for walks or coffee. Talk. Ask questions. Tell stories. Experiment. Don’t try to act correctly or make a good impression. Let the scarcity mindset go. Just try things. Act the way you feel. Be silly sometimes. Or dumb. Or smart. The point is to train yourself to understand that it doesn’t matter and that you don’t need to be someone else to be accepted. You can just be yourself. There are many women. There is no scarcity. Try seducing women, touching them, saying sexy things, kissing them, taking them to your place. This is what many women want. And if it doesn’t go well, it doesn’t matter. There is no scarcity. I am intentionally not explaining how to do things effectively here, because it is important to just try random things and become comfortable with indifference. You need to truly feel that there is no scarcity and that you can create abundance easily. One important thing: when you shoot a basketball, you miss a lot, and you don’t make a big deal out of it. It is normal. We need to learn to miss in order to learn to score. When something doesn’t work with women, you should view it the same way. “Oh, this didn’t work — let’s try something else.” Or "Oh, this girl didn't like me — let's try others." Most people with a scarcity mindset start panicking when something doesn’t work with women, because their evolutionary program tells them it is extremely important and that it may be their last chance. You can never become a good shooter in basketball if you don’t miss a lot. This is true in most areas of life, and especially with women. So start the exploration. You are on the right path.

If a man puts on a muscular rubber costume, does it make him strong and masculine? That's what plastic surgeries do.

UNSTOPPABLE MINDSET Base mindset settings is what sets up our behaviors and determines how effective and successful we can be. It's like the operating systems that run your devices and the software and apps that do specific tasks. The better the soft, the greater the results. In this thread I will post how to tweak and setup our mindsets to become unstoppable.

GOOD OR BAD? RIGHT OR WRONG? Tell me, is eating fast food good or bad? “Bad!” you might say, or “Good!” if you like it. But these answers are meaningless without context. Good or bad for whom? Under what circumstances? For what purpose? “But people who eat fast food are unhealthy”, you might argue. Statistically, that is true — fast food is unhealthy for humans under normal conditions. But imagine you were stranded on an empty island and found a box of fast food — would you eat it? I would. Survival takes precedence over health or principles in that situation. Is killing right or wrong? Again, context matters. If an angry leopard is trying to eat you, killing it may be necessary. What if a criminal is trying to harm your child? Circumstances, goals, and consequences define morality. You see? It’s never simple. And there’s a deeper layer: no one, no matter how logical or experienced, can tell you definitively what is good or bad for your life. The only way to know is to consciously face the choice, make a decision, and experience the consequences yourself. Other people’s truths will never feel authentic. No one can decide for you what to do or what is right. Only after you make a decision and live with the results will you truly feel if it was right or wrong. But the world is complex, and personal experience alone isn’t enough to navigate it efficiently. Take learning tennis as an example. If you try to figure everything out on your own, your progress will be slow, and the chance of becoming great is minimal. But with guidance — through learning and a coach — you can move in the right direction. The coach shows the direction, but you are the one making decisions and experiencing the outcomes. This is the most effective way to learn. Everyone is different. Every situation is different. Life is complex. But with curiosity, courage, and effective guidance, you can face challenges calmly and make decisions that truly work for you.

Imagine tearing your tire while driving. Instead of just fixing it and continuing your journey, you start blaming yourself, feeling inadequate, and falling into a destructive loop. This state only deepens the problem. Whose fault it was matters only for gathering information — analyze what happened, draw constructive conclusions, and adjust your behavior to avoid it in the future. Clinging to it emotionally serves no purpose.

Your perception of life is like a car dashboard — it does not show reality directly, only signals interpreted by sensors. The sensors can be miscalibrated or corrupted, and blindly trusting them can distort your understanding of the world and lead to harmful decisions. If your car behaves strangely, you do not blame reality — you take it to a technician who diagnoses the system and recalibrates the sensors. Only then does the car start behaving as expected. The same applies to your life. If everything feels wrong, broken, or hopeless, your life may not actually be hell or cursed — your perception may simply be miscalibrated and in need of retuning.

When your tire is deflated, driving more won’t solve your problems. Neither will any secret driving technique. You need to find the faulty tire and fix it first. Then you will see that there was no problem, just misunderstanding and a maintenance issue.

There's only one thing that decides what kind of life you will live — your relationship with fear. And it is in your mind and can be changed.

Imagine driving your car backward and complaining that the car is bad and the world is unfair. The car isn’t the problem — your perception is. And you don’t need much to change that and start enjoying your journey.

Your perception and experience of life can change from miserable to happy in a matter of hours — you don’t need years for that. And it doesn’t require anything external.

A coach who focuses on making you feel good is selling entertainment, not results.

Very soon, AI will entertain people better than any real human can. But it will not help people progress and become smarter — there is no incentive for that. We need to listen to and communicate with real people who benefit from us becoming smarter.

If you don't understand the language of emotions, you won't understand women. Don't even think you understood what she meant.

As AI takes the virtual world by storm, we humans need to return to our natural habitat — the real physical world. If you think that you are using AI and will not be replaced by IT, wait a bit and you will see for yourself. Everything virtual will be done much better by AI. But we have an advantage in the real world. At least for the next several years.