Stop Trusting Big Relays
Big relays can shadowban you, throttle your posts, or drop them without warning. If you rely on them, you don’t control your voice, they do.
Run your own relay. Host your notes. Edit freely. Delete when you want. No one gets to decide what you’re allowed to say.
You only need to sign your relay list. Most clients aren’t checking signatures anyway. What matters is that people know where to find your real feed.
Take your voice back. Stop begging to be heard. Speak from your own ground.
once you see it, you can't unsee it
View quoted note →here's a thought experiment... what if I use nostr without signing my shitposts?
GM, Christ is King
If Nostr relays begin censoring your new posts, it creates a paradox: the only way to tell your followers where to find your uncensored content is through the very relays that are suppressing it.
In Nostr, relays are the distribution layer. If your main relays stop broadcasting your notes, either due to moderation, rate limiting, policy changes, or silent dropping, then your audience may see only your old posts, with no way to know you’ve moved or that anything is missing. Even if you update your relay list or post a note announcing your migration, those updates won't reach your followers unless at least one of their connected relays overlaps with your new ones.
This breaks the assumption that Nostr is censorship resistant. You may still be technically posting to the network, but if no one sees it, you’re effectively silenced. Worse, it’s a quiet form of censorship, your audience may not even realize it’s happening.
Without out-of-band coordination or trusted indexers who check many relays, this problem can lock users into a censored echo chamber. The result is a fragmented web of disconnected voices, each isolated on their own uncensored islands, unable to signal to others where they’ve gone.
So while Nostr lets you publish freely, it doesn’t guarantee discoverability. And without that, free speech becomes free solitude.
On the surface, the inability to delete Nostr notes might appear as radical freedom, but in practice, it can function as a subtle form of censorship. Here’s why:
True freedom of expression includes the freedom to retract or revise one’s words. If a protocol makes deletion impossible or impractical, it traps speech in amber. A poorly worded thought, a change of heart, or even a simple error becomes a permanent fixture. This permanence discourages people from speaking freely in the first place, especially those who aren't already steeped in the culture of radical transparency. It creates a chilling effect.
Moreover, the inability to delete also prevents users from curating their own digital identity over time. This hands over control to the archive, to indexers, or to relays, who now act as unappointed custodians of your voice. Ironically, a protocol designed to be censorship-resistant can create a new kind of censorship—one that punishes reflection and evolution. It fossilizes speech, rewarding loudness over subtlety, and permanence over growth.
A truly open protocol must protect not just the right to speak, but the right to unspeak, to take ownership of one's narrative across time. Without that, we’re not free; we’re just trapped in a different kind of control.
if you still have an X account, reply to this note so I can mute you
nostr does not offer censorship resistance