if you are "in bitcoin" because its now kinda "safe and normal now", and not doing anything bitcoin, just buying it like as if its a stock, then you are a burden to bitcoin.
honestly don't use purpose built signing devices. using your phone offline is more secure than a purpose built hardware device against supply chain attacks.
there is another sneaky misinformation camping that has been going for years.
people think "don't trust verify" is about self-custody, like having your own keys. which makes no sense.
its about running your own node, having your own verified copy of the timechain, so you can verify things.
self-custody is about "not your keys, not your coins", or "your keys, your coins" depending on the way you look at it.
some people who are blindly anti-bip110 seem to focus on "good vibes" bitcoin.
not realizing they are undermining everything they cherish about bitcoin.
bitcoin is not magic.
bitcoin doesnt live in the clouds.
running a node HAS TO BE as simple as running a wallet app.
connected you Phoenix lightning wallet to your own electrum server with bip110.
and i know its kinda clunky without nwc but use external wallet (Phoenix) for your zaps.
or you can host a nwc server on top of your lightning server if it exists, already.
never done it before.
buch each nostr client have zap with external wallet option. use that. make sure Phoenix is connected to your bip110 electrum server.