Be so confident in who you are that you're willing to eat alone, sleep alone, do the inner healing work, and flourish without approval. And whenever you find yourself doubting how far you can go, remind yourself how far you've come. You're always stronger than you think you are.

life gets better when you get back into your nerdy interests

I think we were meant to live slower than this. to grow tomatoes. to take afternoon walks. to cry without apologizing for it. to be bad at things and still do them. we weren’t designed for constant achievement. we were meant for moments. small, soft, that somehow mean everything.

Nobody is more stressed than a 19-29 yrs thinking they are running out of time 🥹

Just saw a TikTok that says “We are all selective sinners. We choose the sins we are comfortable with, and judge the people who commit the sins we're not comfortable with” and I’m afraid this is true 😭

Things imma do when I get rich 😎 1. Release a groundbreaking book titled "secret to wealth" but the secret will be in the second volume that I will never release 2. Arrest 2 random ugly people 3. Tell people money is not everything while I use money to buy everything 4. ignore all the worldly problems that dont concern me 5. Forget where I came from 6. Switch up on my day ones Until then let me focus on making ends meet 🥹💔

My unpopular opinions: 📚Society doesn't want women to be happy. It wants them to be useful. 📚Think about it: motherhood isn't treated like something sacred; it's more like a strategy. It keeps women exhausted, tied down, emotionally drained, financially dependent... and way too busy to burn the system down. 📚So when a woman says: "Yeah, I'm not going to play that role," people don't get angry because she's selfish. They get angry because she's free. 📚Some of us weren't born to play along. 📚Some of us were made to question the whole damn system. 📚What's something you were taught to believe about being a "good woman" that you've had to unlearn? I want to hear your story 👇👇👇

💐By 2030, 1 in 4 women in developed countries will remain childfree. 💐Up to 30% will never marry. 💐Society will frame this as a crisis. 💐Governments will panic over birth rates. 💐Because this isn't just about fewer weddings or empty cribs. 💐It's about women walking away from the roles that kept men comfortable and powerful.

Why are Bitcoin and platforms like @Evento and summer of bitcoin so crucial? They represent the future of decentralized finance and connected experiences. 🚀 We're committed to nurturing both, fostering knowledge and facilitating meaningful interactions.

Dear woman 👧🏽 💚Be more than just your husband's wife. 💚Be more than just your children's mother. 💚Be more than just an Inlaw. 💚Be, you......an adult beautiful on the inside and out, complete with positive dreams and aspirations that you chase on your journey to self growth and global impact. 💚Be financially liberated enough to do that which you positively desire without having to wait. 💚Be enough to support your spouse, be enough to walk away from toxicity. 💚Be intellectual enough to birth ideas that cannot be pushed aside. Be strong enough to take charge and be relied upon without being taken for granted. Most importantly, be valuable enough that anyone leaving you will be the one losing. 💚Be, first, you, for you.

Once you decide you want a good life, the universe will start moving things for you to have it. the people you need will appear, the doors you need will open. but not until you decide. once you truly, sincerely decide

Men don't fall in love with you. They lust after your body, your vibe, your softness. They'll fantasize about touching you, but not healing you. They'll chase you like you're a prize, only to treat you like a possession. Lust is loud, love is quiet, steady and shows up when no one's watching. Some men don't want you, they want the feeling you give them, and once that fades? So do they. Protect yourself. Not everyone who desires you is capable of valuing you.

Things that will never abandon you as a woman: - a degree - a thriving career - a skill - travel experiences - making your own money - investments - checking things off your bucket list - health practices Things that can: - men ( especially the ones you sacrificed all the above for in other to build him up) - one sided friendships - black tax collectors

🙏What a privilege to be tired from work you once begged the universe for. 🙏What a privilege to feel overwhelmed by growth you used to dream about. 🙏What a privilege to be challenged by a life you created on purpose. 🙏What a privilege to outgrow things you used to settle for. 🙏What a privilege to become the woman your past self needed.

This is the daily Mantra I live by I tell myself Sekinah The woman you will become in 5 years depends on: 💚The books you read 💚The foods you eat 💚The habits you build 💚The friends you meet 💚The workouts you do 💚The People you surround yourself with 💚The money you invest 💚The sacrifices you make Your future selfis watching

Dear Ladies Please live your life. Nearly all of us are descendants of women who had no other option in life other than to be a wife and mother. We can do anything, go anywhere. Take advantage of this freedom so many would've die for. Live a full life. 💐💚💐

Comparison is the thief of joy, and often, as a result of the over-exposure of everyone's lives, we can minimise our accomplishments and struggle to see the mountains we've already scaled, leading to self-doubt and self-esteem issues.

Please, pray. Please, learn. Please, take action. Please, focus. Please, be respectful. To me, this is the strategy.

There is something called Grace. When it locates you it doesn't inspect your certificates, it doesn't listen to your grammar. It simply changes the story of your life. May the Lord's Grace locate everyone🙏💚💐

As someone in the technical community, one of the best decisions I made this year was to commit to showing up and speaking up more, actively working on my public speaking skills. Investing in yourself is paramount. It's how you signal to the universe that you're ready for bigger opportunities and that you're actively preparing for the future. For me, that means consistently honing my ability to articulate complex technical concepts, even when it feels uncomfortable. Personal branding isn't just for marketers or entrepreneurs; it's an everyday essential, especially for those of us in technical fields. It's about clearly communicating your expertise, passion, and value. What steps are you taking this year to invest in your personal and professional growth? Cc:Gemstones Toastmasters Club, Kaduna