Dear woman 👧🏽 💚Be more than just your husband's wife. 💚Be more than just your children's mother. 💚Be more than just an Inlaw. 💚Be, you......an adult beautiful on the inside and out, complete with positive dreams and aspirations that you chase on your journey to self growth and global impact. 💚Be financially liberated enough to do that which you positively desire without having to wait. 💚Be enough to support your spouse, be enough to walk away from toxicity. 💚Be intellectual enough to birth ideas that cannot be pushed aside. Be strong enough to take charge and be relied upon without being taken for granted. Most importantly, be valuable enough that anyone leaving you will be the one losing. 💚Be, first, you, for you.

Once you decide you want a good life, the universe will start moving things for you to have it. the people you need will appear, the doors you need will open. but not until you decide. once you truly, sincerely decide

Men don't fall in love with you. They lust after your body, your vibe, your softness. They'll fantasize about touching you, but not healing you. They'll chase you like you're a prize, only to treat you like a possession. Lust is loud, love is quiet, steady and shows up when no one's watching. Some men don't want you, they want the feeling you give them, and once that fades? So do they. Protect yourself. Not everyone who desires you is capable of valuing you.

Things that will never abandon you as a woman: - a degree - a thriving career - a skill - travel experiences - making your own money - investments - checking things off your bucket list - health practices Things that can: - men ( especially the ones you sacrificed all the above for in other to build him up) - one sided friendships - black tax collectors

🙏What a privilege to be tired from work you once begged the universe for. 🙏What a privilege to feel overwhelmed by growth you used to dream about. 🙏What a privilege to be challenged by a life you created on purpose. 🙏What a privilege to outgrow things you used to settle for. 🙏What a privilege to become the woman your past self needed.

This is the daily Mantra I live by I tell myself Sekinah The woman you will become in 5 years depends on: 💚The books you read 💚The foods you eat 💚The habits you build 💚The friends you meet 💚The workouts you do 💚The People you surround yourself with 💚The money you invest 💚The sacrifices you make Your future selfis watching

Dear Ladies Please live your life. Nearly all of us are descendants of women who had no other option in life other than to be a wife and mother. We can do anything, go anywhere. Take advantage of this freedom so many would've die for. Live a full life. 💐💚💐

If I may, here is my version: 💚Be grateful for the small, seemingly insignificant things. 💚Be grateful you can exercise, you can make dinner every night. 💚Be grateful, you have people in your life to make dinner for. 💚Be grateful, and try to learn from the people you meet. 💚Be grateful for the sights you see. 💚Be grateful you can hear the birds sing, and see the plants grow. 💚Be grateful you can go for daily walks. 💚Be grateful you can read books, and recipes. 💚Be grateful you have errands to run, be grateful, you are busy. 💚Be grateful for every person you meet, and every good thing you see. 💚If you live your life like that. A life full of gratitude, you will find true happiness, and contentment.

If I may, here is my version: 💚Be grateful for the small, seemingly insignificant things. 💚Be grateful you can exercise, you can make dinner every night. 💚Be grateful, you have people in your life to make dinner for. 💚Be grateful, and try to learn from the people you meet. 💚Be grateful for the sights you see. 💚Be grateful you can hear the birds sing, and see the plants grow. 💚Be grateful you can go for daily walks. 💚Be grateful you can read books, and recipes. 💚Be grateful you have errands to run, be grateful, you are busy. 💚Be grateful for every person you meet, and every good thing you see. 💚If you live your life like that. A life full of gratitude, you will find true happiness, and contentment

Romanticize your life 💚💐

Comparison is the thief of joy, and often, as a result of the over-exposure of everyone's lives, we can minimise our accomplishments and struggle to see the mountains we've already scaled, leading to self-doubt and self-esteem issues.

Please, pray. Please, learn. Please, take action. Please, focus. Please, be respectful. To me, this is the strategy.

There is something called Grace. When it locates you it doesn't inspect your certificates, it doesn't listen to your grammar. It simply changes the story of your life. May the Lord's Grace locate everyone🙏💚💐

As someone in the technical community, one of the best decisions I made this year was to commit to showing up and speaking up more, actively working on my public speaking skills. Investing in yourself is paramount. It's how you signal to the universe that you're ready for bigger opportunities and that you're actively preparing for the future. For me, that means consistently honing my ability to articulate complex technical concepts, even when it feels uncomfortable. Personal branding isn't just for marketers or entrepreneurs; it's an everyday essential, especially for those of us in technical fields. It's about clearly communicating your expertise, passion, and value. What steps are you taking this year to invest in your personal and professional growth? Cc:Gemstones Toastmasters Club, Kaduna

"Modern women are scared of commitment"👀😒 No, I think they're just done playing Unpaid maid, Nurse, therapist, cook, mom, teacher and motivator for someone who calls that "just being a good wife”

A woman is killed every 3 days by a man in their own home. Usually by a partner or a man they know. Our husbands, boyfriends, exes, friends who we've turned down, brothers, fathers. Men. Cis men. In their own homes. Not random trans people in public toilets. #stopfemicide

" The higher your self esteem is, the higher your standards will be. They work hand in hand."

“When we are encouraging women to get married, we are encouraging women to step one inch closer to our death…”💔😒

Books are the cheapest way I use to travel all around the world 📚💐💚

Saturdate with a Woman and her books💐💚📚