2 years ago today I walked away from the first startup I founded.
I poured my heart and soul into it for years, was incredibly proud of what we were building, and felt like we were finally gaining traction.
But in 2023, after a string of family health scares and the news that we had a baby on the way, I realised I couldn’t keep going the way I was.
I had made a classic mistake: building product first and trying to figure out the business model later (I definitely would not recommend this). That meant I was constantly playing catch up. 80-hour weeks became the norm, and the people I was supposedly “doing this for” were the ones I was neglecting most.
It took those life events to shake me into realising something I’d overlooked: hustling, titles, social media followers, even “success” itself doesn’t matter if you’re sacrificing what’s truly important.
Don’t get me wrong, I believe you can build something meaningful and still have time for family. But when your job or business is your life, that’s when it becomes dangerous.
At the end of the day, meaningful relationships are the only thing that carry through every stage of your life. Everything else is temporary.
