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Surrealistic Menina
cristalina@rizful.com
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Cristalina aka Surrealistic Menina
Photographer, Art, Music and Poetry Lover
✨️ Music is my Religion ✨️
Love to laugh and to make laugh 💕
Indigo child
High Priestess
Avatar and banner, by ® Eric Brenner
"A lot of “conscious men” are just emotionally intelligent enough to justify their emotional unavailability.
They breadcrumb. They mirror your dreams and fears back to you in poetic language, but they never actually build anything with you.
They’re meditating, self-regulating, journaling about how much they “feel,” while keeping one foot out the door.
And women are exhausted by this. You’re told to be soft, open, trusting. You’re told that men need space, time, patience. So you stretch yourself. You self-soothe. You hold your breath through the grey zone, waiting for him to finally choose you.
And the kicker?
He believes he’s showing up. Because he’s doing better than the man who screamed, cheated, or ghosted. But he’s still not with you.
So here’s what I want every woman to hear:
If his actions leave you anxious, unclear, or constantly self-checking:
That’s a man who wants connection without commitment. Closeness without cost. Access without accountability.
And I know this because I used to be him.
Healing above all else, made me honest. With myself. That what I thought was a ‘good man’, and all the validation I got for it, was a lie.
And now I refuse to live in a lie- because no matter how much work I’ll do, any lie will always lead to hurt.
You need to be met.
Here is how you can tell the difference:
Real presence has weight. It moves things forward. And if nothing’s moving, then it’s not presence.
It’s performance."
~ Jan-Villen Van Der Heiden
#TruthBeTold
They breadcrumb. They mirror your dreams and fears back to you in poetic language, but they never actually build anything with you.
They’re meditating, self-regulating, journaling about how much they “feel,” while keeping one foot out the door.
And women are exhausted by this. You’re told to be soft, open, trusting. You’re told that men need space, time, patience. So you stretch yourself. You self-soothe. You hold your breath through the grey zone, waiting for him to finally choose you.
And the kicker?
He believes he’s showing up. Because he’s doing better than the man who screamed, cheated, or ghosted. But he’s still not with you.
So here’s what I want every woman to hear:
If his actions leave you anxious, unclear, or constantly self-checking:
That’s a man who wants connection without commitment. Closeness without cost. Access without accountability.
And I know this because I used to be him.
Healing above all else, made me honest. With myself. That what I thought was a ‘good man’, and all the validation I got for it, was a lie.
And now I refuse to live in a lie- because no matter how much work I’ll do, any lie will always lead to hurt.
You need to be met.
Here is how you can tell the difference:
Real presence has weight. It moves things forward. And if nothing’s moving, then it’s not presence.
It’s performance."
~ Jan-Villen Van Der Heiden
#TruthBeTold
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#Meaaaaaaaaaaaw
#Meaaaaaaaaaaaw
Soon, I will be less regularly here.
I am going away, again...
No, it's not partying hard. Lol
This time, is quite time, chilling.
Enjoying slow, peaceful life. ✨🎉
#Weeeeeeeeeee
#Weeeeeeeeeee
Little Princess....
#CristalinaPhotography
#CristalinaPhotography
I don't believe that to live is to suffer. And you won't change my mind.
This last times have been hard for me. I thought something was wrong with me, probably depressed, since I have been highly unmotivated.
However, came to the understanding that is just the aftermath of shadow work !
#HealingJourney
#HealingJourney